Surrounded by superficiality

In life there is always going to be superficiality but the best way to deal with that is to accept it for what it is.

The world will not change so it is up to you to see it for what it is and lead by example and be the change you want to see in the world.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts it is a very good and valid point and I do appreciate your feelings on it.

You are looking for too many answers outside of yourself, and not enough from within: who are you, what are you about, what matters to you? In other words: what are your values as a person, and how then do you relate to the external world?

If you don't know that, then you are a leaf blowing in the wind, a ind of superficiality and meaninglessness.

If you did know, well you wouldn't have posted this, and would have thousands of options through which you could actually make a difference in this great big world.

I feel the same way and i dont understand why people feel the need to have all of these meaningless things, and ive found myself withdrawing from people and things, you just need to find a good friend who feels the same way as you which i was lucky to do.

Also once you start to connect with people and get past the superficial there is usually some redemable qualities in people you concider shallow

I do wonder if you buy your clothes at wal-mart or at the mall... It's hard to say how weird this is without knowing whether or not you're a hypocrite.

You should research the Slave Cage philosophy. I think the same way. We're living in a cage that we've made for ourselves.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xbp6umQT58A&feature=youtu.be

Yeah I feel the same!

Well I cant say this one is normal. But some of the greatest ppl of all time werent normal. I feel very much the same way but I try to help ppl look past all the things holding them back. although ignorance is bliss, they say.

And a on a final note, don't give a shit what others think, i'm a bitter narcissist with(possibly) sociopathic tendences yet I still happen to care about those who don't wrong me by being too human(which is an artificial concept, like language, which, obviously, varies). I mean, I once talked to a shrink, right, and she, SHE, an idiot woman, no offence if you are a young woman yourself, decided to say that although i'm not a sociopath, I may have sociopathic tendences, because, I didn't feel guilty for punching my dad when he was being brave on alcohol, dutch fucking courage, he even called the police and then decided to not press charges, waisting their time, and mine, yet I cry like a fucking baby when my mother dies suddenly of a fucking aneurysm, which is apparently hereditary, a year after I punched my dad, a week before this Christmas, a mournful time! More misery, bring it on universe, you havn't held back yet, don't start now!

And I get your feelings about social relationships, I have two dog companions though, one since I was five, the other(her pup) since I was nine, now i'm eighteen, and and have a detatched relationship frrom my two human childhood friends, who always tried to avoid me, and now feel guilty for being part of giving me a hard time growing up, yeah, all I remember is coldness and pain, thats nature, I was a kind lad, still am, and paid for it by being literally whipped with wires, and once having food thrown at me in the schoolyard, so yeah...

Yeah, exactly, humans are delusional and self destructive, thats why people like me are rejected by society, we usually become painters or scientists, and are only respected when old, or dead, but our generation is the retarded eighties, its a polar opposite of nihilism, clinging to idiocy, while someone like me(and possibly you, I don't know)are left to the cold clutches of reality, and i'm always opposed, sadly though, I understand...my life has been a misery, I am cold thing, yet warm, like Frankensteins monster(the intellectual novel monster, not the BS Hollywood from like the frickin thirties)

You need to find a freind and have a lot of sex and you will be OK!