Part of building a relationship with someone of the opposite sex is communication with them about what feels good and how you like to reach orgasm. This takes a bit of work and a lot of trust, and making that investment in each other is a big part of pair bonding. What you're considering is a workaround which will probably be fun at the time but in the long run will hinder your need for a rewarding and permanent relationship.
So the first thing to do is find a guy who loves you. Then once he goes to work down there you need to talk to him and show him what you are like. Many women assume this will be unwelcome, and not without good reason, so the thing to do is talk about it first. Waiting a little while for sex isn't the worst thing in the world, there are few things men want more, and if a man truly loves you he won't have a problem with this.
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Part of building a relationship with someone of the opposite sex is communication with them about what feels good and how you like to reach orgasm. This takes a bit of work and a lot of trust, and making that investment in each other is a big part of pair bonding. What you're considering is a workaround which will probably be fun at the time but in the long run will hinder your need for a rewarding and permanent relationship.
So the first thing to do is find a guy who loves you. Then once he goes to work down there you need to talk to him and show him what you are like. Many women assume this will be unwelcome, and not without good reason, so the thing to do is talk about it first. Waiting a little while for sex isn't the worst thing in the world, there are few things men want more, and if a man truly loves you he won't have a problem with this.