i truly feel for you. i went through almost the exact thing back in 2001 when i was a freshman in college. my bf of four years and i had been inseperable, then he went to college 2 hours away. he rarely came home to visit and started hanging out with all the snotty rich kids at his private school. i had nothing in common with any of them. i felt so abandoned and slowly our relationship fizzled out. I know how terrible you must feel. I still miss my ex, eight years later, sadly. but he truly is a different person now and i don't think we'd ever have the same connection. i think who i miss is the great guy who was my best friend. maybe that's what you're going through, too. the kicker was in 2006 he randomly called and asked to meet up while he was back in town. i was ecstatic and made plans to hang out with him at a bar with all of my friends. he called 2 hours after he was supposed to show up and said he was "sick" and couldn't make it. things like that remind me why it didn't work. so don't worry, you're not alone :)
Still Not Over My Ex
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i truly feel for you. i went through almost the exact thing back in 2001 when i was a freshman in college. my bf of four years and i had been inseperable, then he went to college 2 hours away. he rarely came home to visit and started hanging out with all the snotty rich kids at his private school. i had nothing in common with any of them. i felt so abandoned and slowly our relationship fizzled out. I know how terrible you must feel. I still miss my ex, eight years later, sadly. but he truly is a different person now and i don't think we'd ever have the same connection. i think who i miss is the great guy who was my best friend. maybe that's what you're going through, too. the kicker was in 2006 he randomly called and asked to meet up while he was back in town. i was ecstatic and made plans to hang out with him at a bar with all of my friends. he called 2 hours after he was supposed to show up and said he was "sick" and couldn't make it. things like that remind me why it didn't work. so don't worry, you're not alone :)