I was 24 when mine passed away after a long struggle. I think it doesn't just go away by itself. If you're haunted by the "what if's" and the "what could I/we have done differently" you need professional help to get a closure. Where I live we don't have proper help for such cases so I keep getting haunted by it every now n then. Its not as 'normal' for us to move on after a close person dies. We require Help to move on. If you have the privilege to get some don't spare it, please do so, it shall do you good. There might be some things that you need to get to the bottom of to feel better, to get you on the track of embracing what happened and not to feel so negative about it when remembering it.
Still not over my Dad daying
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I was 24 when mine passed away after a long struggle. I think it doesn't just go away by itself. If you're haunted by the "what if's" and the "what could I/we have done differently" you need professional help to get a closure. Where I live we don't have proper help for such cases so I keep getting haunted by it every now n then. Its not as 'normal' for us to move on after a close person dies. We require Help to move on. If you have the privilege to get some don't spare it, please do so, it shall do you good. There might be some things that you need to get to the bottom of to feel better, to get you on the track of embracing what happened and not to feel so negative about it when remembering it.