You have a very strange definition of feminism: the dating "rules" you refer to and which I would've thought were outdated in the 21st century keep women in the passive position of waiting to be asked and men in the position of having to risk refusal.
I'd be very interested to know your personal definition of feminism
I fully acknowledged that assigning gender roles to dating is outdated and that as a feminist it's rather hypocritical to think like that. Some "routines" are so deeply imbedded in culture its impossible to think otherwise, I am guilty of this.
Feminism is equality, quality in this instance is the right to ask a guy out without being labelled a man chaser etc. Some women approach men and they execute it perfectly without seeming desperate but men don't tend to value a woman who initiates. (There are statistics on that).
Culture plus the fact that I myself though dont conform, I'm an egomaniac which is why I'll never ask a man out. I can tell him I think he's attractive but would never initiate.
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You have a very strange definition of feminism: the dating "rules" you refer to and which I would've thought were outdated in the 21st century keep women in the passive position of waiting to be asked and men in the position of having to risk refusal.
I'd be very interested to know your personal definition of feminism
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I fully acknowledged that assigning gender roles to dating is outdated and that as a feminist it's rather hypocritical to think like that. Some "routines" are so deeply imbedded in culture its impossible to think otherwise, I am guilty of this.
Feminism is equality, quality in this instance is the right to ask a guy out without being labelled a man chaser etc. Some women approach men and they execute it perfectly without seeming desperate but men don't tend to value a woman who initiates. (There are statistics on that).
Culture plus the fact that I myself though dont conform, I'm an egomaniac which is why I'll never ask a man out. I can tell him I think he's attractive but would never initiate.
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You are hot. I'd totally bang you while you wash my dishes.