Starting to hate women

I'm a normal 28 year old single male, I have just recently started dating and trying to find a relationship with a woman for some time now. But whenever I try to meet women it always backfires for me, I always get the same old rejection "oh sorry i have a boyfriend", I've heard this so many times even when just asking a girl if they want to dance or simply asking them simple questions like the time, etc. It's really putting a damper on my self esteem. I'm just starting to hate women now because they always think just by talking to them that i want to get in their pants when really all im looking for is a meaningful relationship with the opposite sex. Am i a bad person or what? Anyways, is it normal for me to start hating women? Why do so many women hate men?

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  • moomus

    I have felt the same about men! All the nice ones are taken and the ones who show interest seem only to want sex! I'm with someone now and all seems ok but it's still early days. Keep trying!

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    • Azo9339

      but why do all women think that just because you are interested in them that they automatically assume they want sex?

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      • Saycheese

        Not all women are that way and trust me there are a lot of men out there that just want sex from women. Especially the younger men, they drool when they see an attractive woman. And no I'm not saying all; just "a lot" of them.

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  • Alison89

    Don't hate all of us. Keep trying.

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  • Saycheese

    All I say is that you just haven't met the one. :)

    I know it's hard to believe that but don't give up. Like Alison89 said: Keep trying.

    Us women run into this crap all the time too, not just men.

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  • tommy81

    To hate women because you haven't found a girlfriend yet is not very rational. Rejection is part of life. Also, if a girl tells you that she has a boyfriend, that probably means that she does. Leave her alone. That's a good way to get the shit beat out of you by an angry boyfriend. Try a dating site. The users of those sites are there for the same reason, so you're chances of finding someone will be better.

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  • BlueDog78

    Women are the most shallow creatures on earth. Why are they shallow? Because they're arrogant enough to think that with a 5 second glance they can judge the entirety of a man's worth. My friend.... never measure your worth by the opinion of a woman. 99% of the time they have no idea who that guy is that they just shrugged off. Alot of you are pretty stupid too.... Yeah I said that... Why, you ask? Because you choose your mate based on stupid criteria. I mean just look as some of your dating profiles.... "want a guy with tattoos", "looking for a man who drives a truck", and so on and so on.... And you wonder why you got knocked up and ditched. Because you weren't looking for a decent guy with a decent heart. You were so busy looking at his tattoos and his truck you forgot to judge him based on his character and his integrity. This is why I have zero remorse for banging a chick and then not calling her. Because they have zero remorse for giving a guy that snobby look and acting like their sh*t doesn't stink. Alot of them even take satisfaction in doing it because it boosts their ego. So I have no problem grabbing that ego and yanking it down a few notches. I'll admit l've never had a problem getting women. Why? Because they're utterly transparent. Just knowing how shallow they are makes it easy to bypass their defense mechanisms. So don't worry dude. For every girl who gave you a snobby look or shot you down without taking the time to genuinely get to know you as a person, I've banged one and left her to figure out why she wasn't good enough to call back the next day. I'm not gonna lose any sleep over it. You know why? Because you don't even make these guys feel like human beings when you dismiss them like you're a queen who stuck her nose in the air and waived away the plate your servant was holding. Most of you aren't worth it anyway. Sure I'll dish out 10,000 for your little fairy tale wedding and have a kid with you so that 5 years from now as soon as something doesn't go the queen's way she can take half of everything I worked hard for and then slam me with alimony and child support and have the court slap me with a lousy "every other weekend" visitation plan. 4 days a month..... Lol yeah ok. Mathematically, it's not worth it to marry a woman. It never pays for the man. I'll be damned if I ever let a woman get me like that. No siree.... Not me.

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    • vetiarvind

      Preach! I assume the women you're referring to are on the opposite side of the globe (America). On this side, women are exactly the same. AWALT really is true. These egotistical mean cunts aren't worth it (and I do feel sorry for the small minority of women who're decent people but get judged harshly thanks to their mean sisters but I know they'll do well in life)

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  • jessicababy33

    I hate women too ! And I am one ! Lol jkjkjk we have our ups and downs :/ I'm sorry just hang in there and make sure your next girls the right girl. Don't go desperate ! Girls hate that and then your stuck with someone you don't like your at the age were most woman are settling down.

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  • lufa

    they probably aren't attracted to you

    suck it up and keep trying till you find a girl who can tolerate your face and date you.

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    • lolol555

      ^ This.

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  • XxBlackSheepxX

    it's sounds like you might be what they call a budding homosexual

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  • vergil7

    women must die

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  • Flippyfloppy

    What if it was your girlfriend and some dude wanted to dance what would you want her to say?

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  • If every single one of them are rejecting you then are you monsterously ugly or disgustingly obese?

    How awkward are you in talking to them?

    Women make snap judgments when it comes to men, if the guy doesnt look the way the woman wants him to look, i.e. doesnt fit the definition of attractive to them, even if the guy is normal/good looking, most women describe the guy as automatically creepy just for trying to talk to them.

    Just as an FYI, you probably come across a little desperate if the relationship stuff gets mentioned right away, which it sounds like it probably does.

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  • TheRedSheepInPic

    You really need to improve your flirting techniques and keep trying.

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  • Wierdmyself

    had a friend who was sexist (women are inferior) and he hated women. He now has a love his love believe it or not. Keep trying, there's someone for you somewhere, surely... there are tonnes of them.

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  • You could do a bundy...he got laid alot!

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  • Avant-Garde

    Try not to hate them for it, but keep on trying. Just be yourself and I'm sure you'll find someone for you.

    Good Luck!

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  • Aleks85

    Go to a singles meet up. Or look for a date online.

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  • pandabear1209

    Where are you at? Where I live there are tons of singles 20-30 yrs of age. But anyway, keep trying and you will find someone but whatever you do don't ever let the woman your dating know you want a relationship, that's scary stuff, take it slow and play it chill.

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