Girl its not wrong to want your boyfriend to smoke with you i understand you want him to join you on your smoke breaks and have those smoke talks, where your just out there one on one. I also don't think he should be complain to you so much about your smoking, especially if he knew from the start that you're a smoker. If he doesnt like it so much he needs to sit you down and tell seriously, not nag until your so irritated you need to go to the internet.
it's wrong that your not realising how bad it is for him and yourself because you are so blinded by your need to smoke. He doesn't want you to smoke and instead of trying to change for him you are thinking about changing him (and dont compare your relationship to what other girls have done in theirs). this will never work. i understand that you just want him to spend time with you but your not looking at it through his eyes, you are only thinking about what you want him to do.
when he complains to you its because he wants to see you staying by his side when your cuddling or out in a bar/cafe instead of rushing out for a smoke; and you want to see him by your side smoking with you, asking you if you want to go outside and get away from everyone for a smoke (you can do that without smoking btw you can always go out for fresh air and i'm sure he would join you if he knew you weren't smoking).
The point is he wants you to be healthy and that is good because that means he cares about your well being, and smoking is bad i think you should try to quit for him. you will sound like an awful human being if you start saying to his face that you wished he'd smoke. It will make you sound like you don't care about his health which i'm sure you do. if your smoking and his complaining is going to be such an issue then you may have to find another relationship where you have more things in common.
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Girl its not wrong to want your boyfriend to smoke with you i understand you want him to join you on your smoke breaks and have those smoke talks, where your just out there one on one. I also don't think he should be complain to you so much about your smoking, especially if he knew from the start that you're a smoker. If he doesnt like it so much he needs to sit you down and tell seriously, not nag until your so irritated you need to go to the internet.
it's wrong that your not realising how bad it is for him and yourself because you are so blinded by your need to smoke. He doesn't want you to smoke and instead of trying to change for him you are thinking about changing him (and dont compare your relationship to what other girls have done in theirs). this will never work. i understand that you just want him to spend time with you but your not looking at it through his eyes, you are only thinking about what you want him to do.
when he complains to you its because he wants to see you staying by his side when your cuddling or out in a bar/cafe instead of rushing out for a smoke; and you want to see him by your side smoking with you, asking you if you want to go outside and get away from everyone for a smoke (you can do that without smoking btw you can always go out for fresh air and i'm sure he would join you if he knew you weren't smoking).
The point is he wants you to be healthy and that is good because that means he cares about your well being, and smoking is bad i think you should try to quit for him. you will sound like an awful human being if you start saying to his face that you wished he'd smoke. It will make you sound like you don't care about his health which i'm sure you do. if your smoking and his complaining is going to be such an issue then you may have to find another relationship where you have more things in common.