Stalk & watch my neighbor

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I'm 40, married with 2 kids. Pretty much live in pleasantville suburbia just outside a big city.
I've always had a huge sexual appetite & would fall into the category of your typical-been-married-15years don't get it as much as I'd like grouping.
I deal with it, plus I stay busy.
Like many in the suburbs my neighbors have become my friends. Recently I've almost become obsessed with my "across the street" neighbor. She's not drop dead gorgeous, or the coolest girl ever. She's just your typical cute housewife. Gradually as we've become friends I've paid closer attention as she walks the dog or does yard work. I find myself standing at the window rubbing through my pants. Recently I even pulled it out and jerked off to her just pruning flowers.
I know this is somewhat "normal" but I'd like to know how many men have gone as far as spend 30-45 just watching and fantasizing. And if anyone's ever pushed the issue and made advances?
If you guys are like me your on pornhub, look up the retired actress "Pason", that's what she looks like (only not with the right dancer body)
Thanks for your input.

Never shit where you eat 10
Just maintain a safe distance and fantasize away 38
Move. 10
It's pretty common, go with the flow 14
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  • dirtybirdy
    6 years ago

    I know the feeling to an extent. "Hot neighbor guy" lives 2 houses away. I like the fact that he does so much yardwork...

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  • 1979guy
    6 years ago

    Been there done that. I had a fling with the lady "across the street". Was good for a while. My marriage has been rocky for years. So I told my wife I was done and I wanted a divorce. One thing lead to another and I was dating the "across the street lady". No one got anything good out of that. So my advice is don't do it.

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  • Ratmanwakes
    6 years ago

    Interesting scenario. You left an important fact out of this intriguing post of yours, bro. And that is: Does she live alone? If not then I'd say be content with your whack off sessions while watching her. Otherwise you are heading for a whole shit load of trouble should you attempt to take this a step further. So get yourself a fresh tube of lube and enjoy what you can get from this. Keep everybody happy. You got a good thing there,bro. Don't fuck it up!

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    • Scucci
      6 years ago

      No, like the rest of the neighborhood were all married w kids.

      I obviously know the "right thing" to do...was just curious as to how many actually struggle with this. So many men seem to put up a good front & don't seem to be tempted (or at least speak openly) about lusting after friends and neighbors.

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    You are getting terribly distracted. Have your wife talk dirty to you to get your mind off of her.

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    • Scucci
      6 years ago

      If my wife talked dirty to me, probably wouldn't be such a horn dog (ok probably still would)

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago

    1. perfectly normal, just don't do more, don't cheat

    2. Talk to your wife about our needs

    3. you are suffering from the mermaid effect.

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  • Scarlettx87
    6 years ago

    Book your wife an nice hotel somewhere and a fun activity, either, dancing, skiing, just playing pool, swimming anything that can make you escape reality together for abit and have fun, then give her an oily massage or even just "head" and take out all that frustration on the RIGHT woman. It's not all her fault that your sex life is down, maybe if you were concentrating on treating her right instead of wanking over probably one of her friends then she would be more interested in you. Can't stand these men that blame their wife for their sex life yet decide to put their attention elsewhere, if you've lost interest In her do the decent thing and let her go so someone else can appreciate her

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    • Scucci
      6 years ago

      Thanks Scarlettx,
      I made the post wondering "is it normal". I haven't cheated nor plan to with the neighbor but I thought this website would be a useful, anonymous way to see how many people feel the way I may feel without being judged. You women may find this hard to believe but we men want to have a life long commitment to our wives and families but we're still men after marriage and find other women attractive. We still wonder "what if" even if we never plan to act on it. We go on frequent vacations and have tons of fun but that doesn't mean either one of us are perfect.
      Basically, were human but realize men and women are built differently and have a hard time "explaining" why we feel the way we do.
      Thanks for reminding me again why we don't always present women with the unadulterated truth for fear of being judged.

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  • Handyman
    6 years ago

    Whatever you do while watching, don't let your wife catch you.

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    • Analandy
      6 years ago

      Couldn't agree more.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    Normal. I've done it with my across the street neighbor's college-aged daughter, a hot-bodied. gorgeous blonde who washes her car out front in a tiny, black bikini very often, and, two yards down by binoculars, a hot, sweet, fit-bodied (but a bitch) neighbor who lays out by their pool in a blue bikini or, at least, shorts and the bikini top.

    Watching across the street neighbor's daughter is easy, as I can see her from three front windows and my garage, but hot milf takes a bit more work. She's still worth it, even though she's a cold bitch. Husband isn't home much, as he drives some business van, so she's home either alone or with the brood of kids very often. I eye her up from my back porch or, if the proper angle and where she's laying out, half-naked, my back garage screen door. Have had a few times that were just perfect, dead-center view, and watched her for 20-30 minutes at a time.

    Summer is on the way..So are both of my neighbor's outside activities..

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