Spooning error

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I met a girl about 3 months back. She is SO attractive. She's got a perfect ass and some nice tits. Her body is amazing. About a week ago we were watching netflix and I asked her if she wanted to have sex (for the first time) and she said not tonight. So I asked her if we could spoon and she said sure. So we spooned and I got a boner..I couldn't help myself. She knew I had a boner so it was awkward. Then she got up and used the bathroom and I'm pretty sure she just felt uncomfortable. What should I do because shortly after that she left. We still talk and everything and laugh about it but I still feel weird like she thinks im a perv. Oh yea and shes already had sex so I dont know what her deal is. I sent her a picture of my d*** and she said it was big. is it normal for her to be acting like this ?

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  • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
    8 years ago | pl

    They're obligated to say it's big

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  • charli.m
    8 years ago | pl

    Was the sending of the dick pic something mutually desired, or did you just decide she needed to see?

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  • derpyderp
    8 years ago | pl

    Haha, don't stress dude, if she's happy to spoon & didn't slap you for requesting sex (who does that BTW?) then she's obviously keen.
    Maybe it was just coincidence that she got up & left when she did...

    Pretty normal to bar up if you're cuddling her & have your groin pressed up against her ass so it shouldn't have been a huge shock to her.

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    • andrewlancaster
      8 years ago | pl

      Thanks bro

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      • derpyderp
        8 years ago | pl

        Seeming you're here now, like in live time, I have to ask - how did you approach the question of sex?
        What did you say?

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        • andrewlancaster
          8 years ago | pl

          Well I didn't really ask. We started making out & then i began to take her clothes off but she stopped me.

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          • iEatZombies_
            8 years ago | pl

            Girls and guys feel different about sex. For a girl, it's something that establishes an emotional connection is already there. For a guy, it's something used to see if there's further potential for an emotional connection. She's simply trying to work out her emotions. Honestly, she's doing well. There's good potential for you two. You both seem to be healthy about your emotions. As a matter of fact, her saying no is a good way to see how patient you are and how self-respecting she is. You also gotta think, if she can say no to a guy she's attracted to alone on a couch, she's probably going to say no to other guys. Good girlfriend potential, you know.

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          • derpyderp
            8 years ago | pl

            Ah OK.
            I was imagining a conversation along the lines of "so... wanna have sex now?" which would have been extremely awkward & could have explained her leaving...

            You're all good mate, probably overthinking it.
            She asked you for dick pics for fucks sake!
            Surely she isn't shy of feeling a lump in your pants while you cuddle...

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            • andrewlancaster
              8 years ago | pl

              you made me feel alot better. i was afraid i lost her. thanks man. i really appreciate it.

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  • LizardSkin
    8 years ago | pl

    Hey if you wouldn't like to fork, maybe a little spoon?

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  • ToxicCrayons
    8 years ago | pl

    you are so basic

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  • LIGHTHOUSE
    8 years ago | pl

    She might be menstruating that period.

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  • Blue_Velvet
    8 years ago | pl

    Maybe she's not attracted to you since she left. Sending her a dick pic afterwards made her think you're an asshole pervert probably. You met her 3 months ago. You should talk to her and figure out what she wants from you.

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    • andrewlancaster
      8 years ago | pl

      She said she's up for dating and when that happend, she made it clear that she wants to wait a little longer.

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  • sulli94
    8 years ago | pl

    she doesnt want it lol

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  • howaminotmyself
    8 years ago | pl

    If she has a problem with you getting a boner while spooning then she has a lot to learn about the penis.

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    • iEatZombies_
      8 years ago | pl

      I think she may have left if she was getting turned on and didn't want to have sex yet.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago | pl

    Most people should know that you can´t control it when you get a boner 0.o Sounds like a stuck-up bitch and you can do better.

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  • cumm_guzzlah
    8 years ago | pl

    just give her time. you don't ASK a girl to penetrate. don't be stupid. try to inch in there little by little and eat her and THEN work the head in little by little.

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago | pl

    Girls usually like to feel boners. If she is having her period, move your stiff dick out of the way and give her a nice back rub.

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  • Moneyomg
    8 years ago | pl

    It's normal for her to act like that and you sound like a huge entitled jerk.

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