I dont think it's normal, but I don't think that just because it's slightly unconventional that its wrong. I was also subject to the "my house my rules" policy well into my late 20s and some of the smallest infractions had me feeling her belt across my bare bottom until I was literally on the brink of tears, more often than not, these strappings were preceded with a severe mouth soaping for something like smoking or swearing. It diminished the behavior though, that's for sure.
Thanks for the interesting mail Joey. I knew there would be others out there who were spanked by their parents well into their 20's, not many, but some. Your Mom like mine believed in the house rules policy and if you are living in her house, she has the right to discipline you in the most effective way. You know the rules and the punishment when they are broken and there is no way out if you are caught by your mother as humiliating and painful as it is. I also got my mouth washed out with soap for swearing in addition to a bare bottom spanking. You are right, it definitely reduces the frequency of the behavior and in some cases, eliminates it and that is why my Mom uses corporal punishment without an ounce of hesitation. Did your Mom put you over her knee Joey and pull your pants down like mine does or are you standing up and bent over, over the arm of a sofa, lying on the bed etc., how did you manage not to cry(I end up howling even though I try hard not to), did you flail your feet, beg and plead like I did to no avail or quietly accept your licking with the belt, I assume you were humiliated and red faced like me, has anyone like a girlfriend, friend or relative seen, heard or known about your spanking? Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks. Tom
Usually she'd have me go to her room and take my pants down and lay on her bed, then she'd go into her closet and get the belt. There were other times when she used a hair brush when she had me over her knee, those were very unpleasant. One of the worst spankings I had was when we were camping when I was 21 and I was on probation and she found out that I got drunk (she was walking the dog and ran into me and some others drinking in a little area away fro the campground). She told me to get my ass back to the camper and wait for her. When I got back there she followed me in and told me to get my pants down and bend over the couch. First she gave me a very long hard belting, I began to cry and plead with her to stop and she said "I don't want to hear it, you're not going to be able to talk with a bar of soap in your mouth!" After about three long minutes of the belt she took me over the sink and lathered up a bar of ivory soap, I didn't evven resist it because my butt was so sore and I didn't want to make it worse. She covered every inch of my mouth with soap then told me to keep it in my mouth and get back over the couch. She and my aunt gathered up a bundle of switches while my butt was cooling and my mouth was foaming, they came back in and my mom said "now you're really going to be sorry, i'm gonna make sure you don't ever violate your probation again, you're lucky I don't call your P.O, now stay put" She gave me an extremely hard switching that lasted about ten minutes.... she finally grew a bit tired and quit, if she had continued she could have done serious damage and she didn't want that. She let me rinse my mouth out with water before I went to bed. There were other times when I felt tempted to drink and I'd let her know that, that always meant the same thing.... I'd have to approach her and ask her to strap me, this was a serious issue because I needed to stop being tempted to drink so it was always a very hard lesson. She had me in the diaper position one time, she began with a hairbrush and got me to tears with that and then she took off her belt and had me lay down.... I couldn't say how many strokes I got but it was enough to curb my behavior for a while
The first time I asked her to punish me was when I was about 19 and we had a huge argument (i don't even remember what it was about,) but she gave me a few slaps over my pants and then she got frustrated and began crying and walked away. I felt really bad, I knew I fucked up and I didn't want to hurt my mom. Later that night, I came up to her and handed her a belt and a bar of soap. "what's this" she asked, "mom...I'm really sorry...I didn't mean to hurt you....I know what I did was wrong and I need to be punished for it....and I deserve to be punished for making you cry..." She told me I was right and instructed me to go to the bathroom. She lathered up the soap and told me "open up" which I did.. she rubbed it all over my teeth and tongue for nearly ten minutes, then she had me sit on the toilet and she'd pull the bar of soap out and make me repeat the bad words I had said earlier... "fuck" (15 seconds of hard fast soap)...."shit"(15 seconds of soap) and this went on for about ten more minutes then she told me I was going to keep that soap in my mouth while she gave me the strapping I earned. I laid across her bed with my bare butt propped up with some pillows and she doubled her belt over, gave me the lecture, then proceeded to give me a very hard very severe belting. When I thought it was over she pushed me back down and said "we're not through yet," and she told me I was going to get 12 strokes with the cane.. I was balling my eyes out when it was all over...
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I dont think it's normal, but I don't think that just because it's slightly unconventional that its wrong. I was also subject to the "my house my rules" policy well into my late 20s and some of the smallest infractions had me feeling her belt across my bare bottom until I was literally on the brink of tears, more often than not, these strappings were preceded with a severe mouth soaping for something like smoking or swearing. It diminished the behavior though, that's for sure.
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Thanks for the interesting mail Joey. I knew there would be others out there who were spanked by their parents well into their 20's, not many, but some. Your Mom like mine believed in the house rules policy and if you are living in her house, she has the right to discipline you in the most effective way. You know the rules and the punishment when they are broken and there is no way out if you are caught by your mother as humiliating and painful as it is. I also got my mouth washed out with soap for swearing in addition to a bare bottom spanking. You are right, it definitely reduces the frequency of the behavior and in some cases, eliminates it and that is why my Mom uses corporal punishment without an ounce of hesitation. Did your Mom put you over her knee Joey and pull your pants down like mine does or are you standing up and bent over, over the arm of a sofa, lying on the bed etc., how did you manage not to cry(I end up howling even though I try hard not to), did you flail your feet, beg and plead like I did to no avail or quietly accept your licking with the belt, I assume you were humiliated and red faced like me, has anyone like a girlfriend, friend or relative seen, heard or known about your spanking? Hope to hear from you soon. Thanks. Tom
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Usually she'd have me go to her room and take my pants down and lay on her bed, then she'd go into her closet and get the belt. There were other times when she used a hair brush when she had me over her knee, those were very unpleasant. One of the worst spankings I had was when we were camping when I was 21 and I was on probation and she found out that I got drunk (she was walking the dog and ran into me and some others drinking in a little area away fro the campground). She told me to get my ass back to the camper and wait for her. When I got back there she followed me in and told me to get my pants down and bend over the couch. First she gave me a very long hard belting, I began to cry and plead with her to stop and she said "I don't want to hear it, you're not going to be able to talk with a bar of soap in your mouth!" After about three long minutes of the belt she took me over the sink and lathered up a bar of ivory soap, I didn't evven resist it because my butt was so sore and I didn't want to make it worse. She covered every inch of my mouth with soap then told me to keep it in my mouth and get back over the couch. She and my aunt gathered up a bundle of switches while my butt was cooling and my mouth was foaming, they came back in and my mom said "now you're really going to be sorry, i'm gonna make sure you don't ever violate your probation again, you're lucky I don't call your P.O, now stay put" She gave me an extremely hard switching that lasted about ten minutes.... she finally grew a bit tired and quit, if she had continued she could have done serious damage and she didn't want that. She let me rinse my mouth out with water before I went to bed. There were other times when I felt tempted to drink and I'd let her know that, that always meant the same thing.... I'd have to approach her and ask her to strap me, this was a serious issue because I needed to stop being tempted to drink so it was always a very hard lesson. She had me in the diaper position one time, she began with a hairbrush and got me to tears with that and then she took off her belt and had me lay down.... I couldn't say how many strokes I got but it was enough to curb my behavior for a while
The first time I asked her to punish me was when I was about 19 and we had a huge argument (i don't even remember what it was about,) but she gave me a few slaps over my pants and then she got frustrated and began crying and walked away. I felt really bad, I knew I fucked up and I didn't want to hurt my mom. Later that night, I came up to her and handed her a belt and a bar of soap. "what's this" she asked, "mom...I'm really sorry...I didn't mean to hurt you....I know what I did was wrong and I need to be punished for it....and I deserve to be punished for making you cry..." She told me I was right and instructed me to go to the bathroom. She lathered up the soap and told me "open up" which I did.. she rubbed it all over my teeth and tongue for nearly ten minutes, then she had me sit on the toilet and she'd pull the bar of soap out and make me repeat the bad words I had said earlier... "fuck" (15 seconds of hard fast soap)...."shit"(15 seconds of soap) and this went on for about ten more minutes then she told me I was going to keep that soap in my mouth while she gave me the strapping I earned. I laid across her bed with my bare butt propped up with some pillows and she doubled her belt over, gave me the lecture, then proceeded to give me a very hard very severe belting. When I thought it was over she pushed me back down and said "we're not through yet," and she told me I was going to get 12 strokes with the cane.. I was balling my eyes out when it was all over...