I'd just like to ask one question. How would you feel if someone that was 3 meters tall and weighing three times you weight started to get really pissed at you then picked you up like a rag doll and beat you. You have no means of defending yourself at all. That's what it feels like from a child's point of view. I call anyone who beats their child a coward. There are always other ways to make children learn. I remember a teacher once telling us about a kid who got a beating from his mom because he had hit another kid. Where is the sense in that? You get a beating to teach you not to hit someone else. Where's the logic in that?
Beating is not the same as spanking or hurting your kid for the purpose of raising it well. Beating a kid because you're pissed off at it is actually a way of reliving stress. It's wrong. You dont kick your dog each time you're angry. Same goes with kids...
I know there are other ways of teaching kids, but this poll is biased for a reason: IF nothing else worked, would you hit your kid?
They're just different words for physicval aggression in my book. If nothing else worked, I wouldn't hit my kid because as I said earlier it's cowardice. You wouldn't want a beating from someone twice your size, twice your weight and three times your strength, so why would any child like it? I agree with Dad, it just teaches children to fear their parents.
Spank your kids or have spoiled brats?
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I'd just like to ask one question. How would you feel if someone that was 3 meters tall and weighing three times you weight started to get really pissed at you then picked you up like a rag doll and beat you. You have no means of defending yourself at all. That's what it feels like from a child's point of view. I call anyone who beats their child a coward. There are always other ways to make children learn. I remember a teacher once telling us about a kid who got a beating from his mom because he had hit another kid. Where is the sense in that? You get a beating to teach you not to hit someone else. Where's the logic in that?
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Beating is not the same as spanking or hurting your kid for the purpose of raising it well. Beating a kid because you're pissed off at it is actually a way of reliving stress. It's wrong. You dont kick your dog each time you're angry. Same goes with kids...
I know there are other ways of teaching kids, but this poll is biased for a reason: IF nothing else worked, would you hit your kid?
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They're just different words for physicval aggression in my book. If nothing else worked, I wouldn't hit my kid because as I said earlier it's cowardice. You wouldn't want a beating from someone twice your size, twice your weight and three times your strength, so why would any child like it? I agree with Dad, it just teaches children to fear their parents.
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I second this.