Hi WorkingMom. I know this thread is older but I found it and wanted to comment. I have a foot fetish. I also have a shoe fetish and a hosiery fetish. It started when I was young. Apparently, when I was a baby, my mom was folding laundry, to include pantyhose. I must have thought they were soft because I grabbed the clean pair and rubbed my face with them. Totally normal. But, as I got older like age 4, there was a neighbor, she worn heels and nylons to work everyday. I would watch for her out the window when she got home from work, quite a bit. One day, I got brave and walked out of the house when she got home. I wanted to tickle her feet because I had no clue how to express my interest in her nylons. I hadn't smelled them before so I had no clue that was a way of expressing it. But I understood tickling. My grandfather came running after me and asked where I was going. I told him I was going to tickler her feet and he chuckled but told me don't do that. The neighbor laughed too and it was not embarrassing at all for me. I think that's true because a huge issue wasn't made of it.
In kindergarten, the teacher's aide wore suntan nylons to work everyday. I used to want to sit at her feet while she read to us, even fought with other kids about it. Nothing physical, just arguing and calling dibs. I realized at age 5 it was because of her nylon feet. Ever since my childhood, I've had a strong interest in nylon feet. Bare too, to an extent, but nylon feet especially. It is normal and common. I wouldn't say for me that it is a fetish. Fetish implies that I can on,y get pleasure from nylon feet. That simply isn't true at. I've been able to perform with women I dated who had ugly feet or who didn't wear pantyhose and no issues. But I certainly have a preference, and it is something I think about once per day.
Here is how it progressed for me. I suppressed it as I got older, like age 7- high school. I was too embarrassed. I masturbated quite often thinking about a girl or woman I saw, as it was an instant trigger. But I never told anyone nor did I attempt anything with feet or hose. By the way, I fount my moms feet hideous and never tried to touch her feet, shoes, or hose. After high school, I went into the military and again never let it manifest itself, except privately
with myself. My first foot experience was actually with bare feet. I sucked on my girlfriend's toes in the bath tub. She liked it and saw how excited it got me. But she never wore hose and I just couldn't touch her feet unless they were clean. But, I knew if she had on hose, I wouldnt care how long she was in her shoes. I eventually got a gf who wore hose often. She couldn't understand my desire to smell her feet but she indulged me. But I was never 100% satisfied with it because for me she never wore the right heels. Sometimes she'd wear boots and sometimes she'd wear sandals with hose. Boot feet can get gross quickly, depends on the girl. I was more interested in heels or flats with hose and without. She liked it. She got lots of foot rubs and she love having her toes sucked.
When the internet became popular and I didn't have a gf anymore, I turned to the internet to satisfy my desires. It became unhealthy because I'd spend a lot of time doing it. It only intensified my desire. I should state that up to this point, that while girls I dated indulged me, they never had the smell at all because as you know that takes time. We call that well worn. Meaning the shoes and or the hose must be well worn. Worn nylons in brand new shoes won't smell like much. It is also true that nylon feet air out quickly so the longer the shows are off the less likely they are to smell like anything. And, from experiment, nylons that have been in a hamper don't smell like much either. Doesn't mean we won't indulge, but doesn't mean they have that smell we like.
Over the years I dated wome,n all who thought I was a great, caring guy. None of them broke up with me over feet. One of them didn't want me messing with their feet if they might be stinky. Some I never got to introduce them to it, again out of embarrassment. I can tell you that the internet thing is the hardest to overcome. That did cause issues in one relationship. She didn't like it. I eventually quit. It was a curiosity thing. I knew I had this desire and I wanted to explore it in a harmless to others way. The fact that I never really got to he smell I thought I'd get from nylon feet didn't help any. It fueled it. But, some women just don't develop an odor and some don't wear them long enough.
I'm now married to a great woman. She has a job where she is required to wear heels and hose. But, she breaks the heels rule. And, ironically when we first met she didn't wear hose either because she had a choice of pants or skirt. Pants = no hose, skirt = hose. She now wears hose. But not though. She switched because they changed the pants and they look like guy pants, so now she wears hose with flats and a skirt. She knows I love it. And she indulges me. I benefit bad so does she. Her feet hurt a lot. I rub them for her when ever she asks. I only kiss them when they are in hose or when they are fresh out of her flats, no walking on the ground.
My point in all of this is that, you are correct to tell him not to sniff others' feet. It is not normal for a babysitter to let him sniff her feet. It borders on something sexual. I know first hand. I say borders because if he had sucked or toes or kissed her feet, how would that have gone over? Those are the next steps after sniffing. Rubbing feet, while harmless is another gray area. It should only be done with permission. To volunteer to do it is a bit much, unless the woman says my feet really hurt or I wish I had someone to rub my feet. Even in those cases, unless I'm in a relationship with that woman, I wouldn't dare sneak a sniff. I would just rub and let it be innocent. Feet are sexual,object to me, just like boobs are to some guys. It's very difficult for me not to look down at women's feet. I do it daily. I cannot help it. But I don't do any thing without permission bad now that I'm married I only do it with my wife. Also, because it's a sensitive issue, I stii have a tough time asking my wife to wear hose. She used to do it when we wee dating just for me, now I must ask her if it is outside of work. And when she is on her way home from work I ask if I Cavan rub her feet when she gets in. She knows what that means, it's unspoken. I still have difficulty communicating it with my wife. I'm still embarrassed and I'm 43.
As for how foot fetishes occur: in the brain, the part if the brain that recognizes genitals and feet are right next to each other. If they touch in any way, more than likely a fetish for feet or at least an interest will develop. It's more common in men than women. As for why we like the smell, it's hard to say. One it could be a submissive thing, although I'm not submissive. I think what is more likely is that there are pheromones in women's sweat glands so it is a sexual scent. Also, whether we admit it or not, our culture promotes this sort of thing. Why else do we associate sex with sexy shoes? Why else do women worry whether their feet are funky looking or not? Why paint your toes?
Your son will likely try to date women who wear hose. He will likely be embarrassed about it at first. He will probably be an adult before he makes himself vulnerable with it. I'm in a heathy relationship/marriage now. She's happy to get foot rubs. I just don't her obsessed with it. If she takes her shoes and hose off before I play with them I don't mention it. I respect her bad love her whether she indulges me or not. In fact, she doesn't wear heels at all and I still have yet to sniff feet that were in heels, only boots and flats. There is hope for your son. As long as you teach him boundaries at a young age he will not be a deviant when he gets older. But he might make a woman who has been on her feet all day very happy to have him rub, even if he is going to smell them too. He might reserve that for a women he trusts though. If not he could be embarrassed, like I was one time and still am if I see that particular girl.
Be concerned but teach him those things require permission. If you do, he'll grow up with the same desires but they won't land him in hot water.
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Hi WorkingMom. I know this thread is older but I found it and wanted to comment. I have a foot fetish. I also have a shoe fetish and a hosiery fetish. It started when I was young. Apparently, when I was a baby, my mom was folding laundry, to include pantyhose. I must have thought they were soft because I grabbed the clean pair and rubbed my face with them. Totally normal. But, as I got older like age 4, there was a neighbor, she worn heels and nylons to work everyday. I would watch for her out the window when she got home from work, quite a bit. One day, I got brave and walked out of the house when she got home. I wanted to tickle her feet because I had no clue how to express my interest in her nylons. I hadn't smelled them before so I had no clue that was a way of expressing it. But I understood tickling. My grandfather came running after me and asked where I was going. I told him I was going to tickler her feet and he chuckled but told me don't do that. The neighbor laughed too and it was not embarrassing at all for me. I think that's true because a huge issue wasn't made of it.
In kindergarten, the teacher's aide wore suntan nylons to work everyday. I used to want to sit at her feet while she read to us, even fought with other kids about it. Nothing physical, just arguing and calling dibs. I realized at age 5 it was because of her nylon feet. Ever since my childhood, I've had a strong interest in nylon feet. Bare too, to an extent, but nylon feet especially. It is normal and common. I wouldn't say for me that it is a fetish. Fetish implies that I can on,y get pleasure from nylon feet. That simply isn't true at. I've been able to perform with women I dated who had ugly feet or who didn't wear pantyhose and no issues. But I certainly have a preference, and it is something I think about once per day.
Here is how it progressed for me. I suppressed it as I got older, like age 7- high school. I was too embarrassed. I masturbated quite often thinking about a girl or woman I saw, as it was an instant trigger. But I never told anyone nor did I attempt anything with feet or hose. By the way, I fount my moms feet hideous and never tried to touch her feet, shoes, or hose. After high school, I went into the military and again never let it manifest itself, except privately
with myself. My first foot experience was actually with bare feet. I sucked on my girlfriend's toes in the bath tub. She liked it and saw how excited it got me. But she never wore hose and I just couldn't touch her feet unless they were clean. But, I knew if she had on hose, I wouldnt care how long she was in her shoes. I eventually got a gf who wore hose often. She couldn't understand my desire to smell her feet but she indulged me. But I was never 100% satisfied with it because for me she never wore the right heels. Sometimes she'd wear boots and sometimes she'd wear sandals with hose. Boot feet can get gross quickly, depends on the girl. I was more interested in heels or flats with hose and without. She liked it. She got lots of foot rubs and she love having her toes sucked.
When the internet became popular and I didn't have a gf anymore, I turned to the internet to satisfy my desires. It became unhealthy because I'd spend a lot of time doing it. It only intensified my desire. I should state that up to this point, that while girls I dated indulged me, they never had the smell at all because as you know that takes time. We call that well worn. Meaning the shoes and or the hose must be well worn. Worn nylons in brand new shoes won't smell like much. It is also true that nylon feet air out quickly so the longer the shows are off the less likely they are to smell like anything. And, from experiment, nylons that have been in a hamper don't smell like much either. Doesn't mean we won't indulge, but doesn't mean they have that smell we like.
Over the years I dated wome,n all who thought I was a great, caring guy. None of them broke up with me over feet. One of them didn't want me messing with their feet if they might be stinky. Some I never got to introduce them to it, again out of embarrassment. I can tell you that the internet thing is the hardest to overcome. That did cause issues in one relationship. She didn't like it. I eventually quit. It was a curiosity thing. I knew I had this desire and I wanted to explore it in a harmless to others way. The fact that I never really got to he smell I thought I'd get from nylon feet didn't help any. It fueled it. But, some women just don't develop an odor and some don't wear them long enough.
I'm now married to a great woman. She has a job where she is required to wear heels and hose. But, she breaks the heels rule. And, ironically when we first met she didn't wear hose either because she had a choice of pants or skirt. Pants = no hose, skirt = hose. She now wears hose. But not though. She switched because they changed the pants and they look like guy pants, so now she wears hose with flats and a skirt. She knows I love it. And she indulges me. I benefit bad so does she. Her feet hurt a lot. I rub them for her when ever she asks. I only kiss them when they are in hose or when they are fresh out of her flats, no walking on the ground.
My point in all of this is that, you are correct to tell him not to sniff others' feet. It is not normal for a babysitter to let him sniff her feet. It borders on something sexual. I know first hand. I say borders because if he had sucked or toes or kissed her feet, how would that have gone over? Those are the next steps after sniffing. Rubbing feet, while harmless is another gray area. It should only be done with permission. To volunteer to do it is a bit much, unless the woman says my feet really hurt or I wish I had someone to rub my feet. Even in those cases, unless I'm in a relationship with that woman, I wouldn't dare sneak a sniff. I would just rub and let it be innocent. Feet are sexual,object to me, just like boobs are to some guys. It's very difficult for me not to look down at women's feet. I do it daily. I cannot help it. But I don't do any thing without permission bad now that I'm married I only do it with my wife. Also, because it's a sensitive issue, I stii have a tough time asking my wife to wear hose. She used to do it when we wee dating just for me, now I must ask her if it is outside of work. And when she is on her way home from work I ask if I Cavan rub her feet when she gets in. She knows what that means, it's unspoken. I still have difficulty communicating it with my wife. I'm still embarrassed and I'm 43.
As for how foot fetishes occur: in the brain, the part if the brain that recognizes genitals and feet are right next to each other. If they touch in any way, more than likely a fetish for feet or at least an interest will develop. It's more common in men than women. As for why we like the smell, it's hard to say. One it could be a submissive thing, although I'm not submissive. I think what is more likely is that there are pheromones in women's sweat glands so it is a sexual scent. Also, whether we admit it or not, our culture promotes this sort of thing. Why else do we associate sex with sexy shoes? Why else do women worry whether their feet are funky looking or not? Why paint your toes?
Your son will likely try to date women who wear hose. He will likely be embarrassed about it at first. He will probably be an adult before he makes himself vulnerable with it. I'm in a heathy relationship/marriage now. She's happy to get foot rubs. I just don't her obsessed with it. If she takes her shoes and hose off before I play with them I don't mention it. I respect her bad love her whether she indulges me or not. In fact, she doesn't wear heels at all and I still have yet to sniff feet that were in heels, only boots and flats. There is hope for your son. As long as you teach him boundaries at a young age he will not be a deviant when he gets older. But he might make a woman who has been on her feet all day very happy to have him rub, even if he is going to smell them too. He might reserve that for a women he trusts though. If not he could be embarrassed, like I was one time and still am if I see that particular girl.
Be concerned but teach him those things require permission. If you do, he'll grow up with the same desires but they won't land him in hot water.
Hope this helps!