Thank you for your advice and for the offer but it is tough to coordinate with people on the Internet. I've posted some very personal stuff here and would feel uncomfortable meeting with anyone from this forum. I'll assume you are just being kind and will therefore thank you but it is impossible to truly tell on the Internet.
That aside, I have considered a specialist but I don't think it seems we have a good handle on what to do. Fetishes don't seem to go away - our treatments don't suffice. I will try and redirect him in healthy ways as you and others have suggested.
Eventually, when he is a teenager and I see him wanting to date girls in pantyhose, we'll have a gentle talk; until then, I think I'll guide him to see the whole woman and not obsess over this one part. If his sexuality grows to enjoy it and everything else when he is older, he'll be in good shape. As others have noted, I can give inputs but many factors will shape his sexuality and I can only do so much - but will do my best to help.
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Thank you for your advice and for the offer but it is tough to coordinate with people on the Internet. I've posted some very personal stuff here and would feel uncomfortable meeting with anyone from this forum. I'll assume you are just being kind and will therefore thank you but it is impossible to truly tell on the Internet.
That aside, I have considered a specialist but I don't think it seems we have a good handle on what to do. Fetishes don't seem to go away - our treatments don't suffice. I will try and redirect him in healthy ways as you and others have suggested.
Eventually, when he is a teenager and I see him wanting to date girls in pantyhose, we'll have a gentle talk; until then, I think I'll guide him to see the whole woman and not obsess over this one part. If his sexuality grows to enjoy it and everything else when he is older, he'll be in good shape. As others have noted, I can give inputs but many factors will shape his sexuality and I can only do so much - but will do my best to help.