@nahnahchow thanks for your reply. it did give me some different perspectives and calmed some of my fears a bit. first of all, i guess i never fully considered how much the environment was triggering him. i have since changed jobs. i figured he was too young to be triggered that way but since have learned these impressions are made at a very young age.
it does bother me he was already thinking in those terms at such a young age but i have come to accept that.
i never considered a psychiatrist - i just figured they would repress it too much. i will consider again.
at this point, i have stopped wearing pantyhose and removed them from the house, friends not wearing them over. he seemed upset for a while but it seems the behavior has stopped for now. perhaps i myself repressed it.
i'm curious if i had a female friend visit who happened to wear pantyhose if it all would manifest again. i'll keep an eye out. i'm also worried it is just latent. but maybe as you said maybe it will just pass on to other interests. thanks for posting even though it has been a while - i truly appreciate your advice.
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@nahnahchow thanks for your reply. it did give me some different perspectives and calmed some of my fears a bit. first of all, i guess i never fully considered how much the environment was triggering him. i have since changed jobs. i figured he was too young to be triggered that way but since have learned these impressions are made at a very young age.
it does bother me he was already thinking in those terms at such a young age but i have come to accept that.
i never considered a psychiatrist - i just figured they would repress it too much. i will consider again.
at this point, i have stopped wearing pantyhose and removed them from the house, friends not wearing them over. he seemed upset for a while but it seems the behavior has stopped for now. perhaps i myself repressed it.
i'm curious if i had a female friend visit who happened to wear pantyhose if it all would manifest again. i'll keep an eye out. i'm also worried it is just latent. but maybe as you said maybe it will just pass on to other interests. thanks for posting even though it has been a while - i truly appreciate your advice.