Hey,working mom.
I know this is an old post. But I think I wanna share something with you.
1st of all, let me put it in a harsh way, your son's behaviour is out of boundary. Even though he is just a 5 year old kid. I think you should consult someone professional, like a psychiatrist, or a counsellor. Before you bring your son to him/her, you wanna go there alone first , to ask the person and let him/her give you some advice. He/her should be able to tell you whether you wanna interfere your son's act or not, or better, how to interfere.
However on the bright side, your son is just 5 years old. His act is gonna be easily corrected. Also I do not think that a 5 year old understand sex is we adult do. I remember when I was 5 years old, I think I started to find out that masturbate feels good. What I am saying is, this kind of act can go away. Tell you the truth, when I was 16,17 years old, I was crazy about sex, sadly I dun have a girlfriend, and I did do some weird act , as time pass by, they go away. Especially when I was older, had some sort of sexual activity, those weird acts go away.
Another thing that I think you may neglected is that those uniform you and your co-workers put on, those black and white dress, tight skirt and pantyhose may triggered your son A LOT. I have foot fetish, also I have a HUGE turn on when it comes to those OL dress and pantyhose. Do not freak out, a lot of men have this kind of feelings. My point is, if you can ,separate your son from your work environment. Do not let him went back to the same scene that make him excited. Let him play with girls that from the same age. I think he is gonna feel so much better.
You put a 30 year old professional sexy as hell secretary in front of a 5 year old boy, ohh man, he's gonna get excited. You think he is a kid, but what you dun know is he is already picturing things he wanna do with her.
Again, dun freak out. This is what men do . We all feel this way.
@nahnahchow thanks for your reply. it did give me some different perspectives and calmed some of my fears a bit. first of all, i guess i never fully considered how much the environment was triggering him. i have since changed jobs. i figured he was too young to be triggered that way but since have learned these impressions are made at a very young age.
it does bother me he was already thinking in those terms at such a young age but i have come to accept that.
i never considered a psychiatrist - i just figured they would repress it too much. i will consider again.
at this point, i have stopped wearing pantyhose and removed them from the house, friends not wearing them over. he seemed upset for a while but it seems the behavior has stopped for now. perhaps i myself repressed it.
i'm curious if i had a female friend visit who happened to wear pantyhose if it all would manifest again. i'll keep an eye out. i'm also worried it is just latent. but maybe as you said maybe it will just pass on to other interests. thanks for posting even though it has been a while - i truly appreciate your advice.
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Hey,working mom.
I know this is an old post. But I think I wanna share something with you.
1st of all, let me put it in a harsh way, your son's behaviour is out of boundary. Even though he is just a 5 year old kid. I think you should consult someone professional, like a psychiatrist, or a counsellor. Before you bring your son to him/her, you wanna go there alone first , to ask the person and let him/her give you some advice. He/her should be able to tell you whether you wanna interfere your son's act or not, or better, how to interfere.
However on the bright side, your son is just 5 years old. His act is gonna be easily corrected. Also I do not think that a 5 year old understand sex is we adult do. I remember when I was 5 years old, I think I started to find out that masturbate feels good. What I am saying is, this kind of act can go away. Tell you the truth, when I was 16,17 years old, I was crazy about sex, sadly I dun have a girlfriend, and I did do some weird act , as time pass by, they go away. Especially when I was older, had some sort of sexual activity, those weird acts go away.
Another thing that I think you may neglected is that those uniform you and your co-workers put on, those black and white dress, tight skirt and pantyhose may triggered your son A LOT. I have foot fetish, also I have a HUGE turn on when it comes to those OL dress and pantyhose. Do not freak out, a lot of men have this kind of feelings. My point is, if you can ,separate your son from your work environment. Do not let him went back to the same scene that make him excited. Let him play with girls that from the same age. I think he is gonna feel so much better.
You put a 30 year old professional sexy as hell secretary in front of a 5 year old boy, ohh man, he's gonna get excited. You think he is a kid, but what you dun know is he is already picturing things he wanna do with her.
Again, dun freak out. This is what men do . We all feel this way.
Good luck and dun stress yourself too much !
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@nahnahchow thanks for your reply. it did give me some different perspectives and calmed some of my fears a bit. first of all, i guess i never fully considered how much the environment was triggering him. i have since changed jobs. i figured he was too young to be triggered that way but since have learned these impressions are made at a very young age.
it does bother me he was already thinking in those terms at such a young age but i have come to accept that.
i never considered a psychiatrist - i just figured they would repress it too much. i will consider again.
at this point, i have stopped wearing pantyhose and removed them from the house, friends not wearing them over. he seemed upset for a while but it seems the behavior has stopped for now. perhaps i myself repressed it.
i'm curious if i had a female friend visit who happened to wear pantyhose if it all would manifest again. i'll keep an eye out. i'm also worried it is just latent. but maybe as you said maybe it will just pass on to other interests. thanks for posting even though it has been a while - i truly appreciate your advice.