I dont think the issue is foot fetish per se ( hes too young to actually get sexual arousal out of it and he might grow out of it , he might not) but him imposing on others without their permission....
I wouldnt shame him, but just kind of shoo him away...." Dont bother Mary, Timmy, shes had a hard day" ...if Mary says, " oh I dont care" well then let him whiff away...but if Mary doesnt say anything you know it bothers her and he has to stop. It could even effect who even comes to your house and so you will probably have a little talk with him . Again I wouldnt focus on the " foot fetish" just the whole we cant impose on people and that they are not just objects for our own pleasures...no shame, no disgust, just we have to respect others and this includes close personal space as well.
Good advice - thank you. It is hard for me too to say it is a fetish - I think we're somewhat clueless on when the desires truly begin, so I can't say whether it is sexual or not yet.
One thing, which prompted my question, is if Mary says she doesn't care, is it sexual? That's the hardest part for me. For instance, if Mary slept over in the guestroom and we found him sniffing her panties and Mary even said it was cute (though I doubt she would), I think we'd all agree that scent is private and it wouldn't be appropriate (which is why Mary would doubtfully say yes). Foot scent is a bit more tricky - not sure whether to treat it like you said (a boundary that if permissible is okay) or like the panties scenario.
Would love to hear your perspective here - thanks in advance!
Unfortunately, even if your workmates said it was O.K., they still might feel creeped out by it...so you're right back to reinforcing personal boundaries with him...all I am saying is dont get into the whole sexual and fetish thing...just that he needs to respect personal boundaries with others. No shaming, no its some big deal that will affect him the rest of his life....Parents often have to impose limits on kids.
There's nothing wrong with it, I did the same even younger and still love women's feet and toes, Smelling, Kissing, Licking and sucking all over the feet and toes.my cell is 716-708-0637 My name is Steve.
Ur son smelling feet in nylons is normal,I am 50 and started with my foot fetish when I was around 7,would smell my moms feet under the table when she was on the phone,she wore nude hose everyday and her feet smelled great!! She never yelled at me or made me feel bad about it,when my aunts would come over id smell their feet also and they thought it’s was cute,he will just find a woman when he is older who will do this for him like I did,I met my wife when we were 15 and she wore nude knee HI’s,she let me smell her feet almost immediately and loved that I did it,unfortunately she passed away in 2018 but I had an amazing life with her and ur son will find someone who will fill that foot fetish for him,as for now I say let him smell ur pantyhose and ur feet,it’s harmless at his age!!!
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I dont think the issue is foot fetish per se ( hes too young to actually get sexual arousal out of it and he might grow out of it , he might not) but him imposing on others without their permission....
I wouldnt shame him, but just kind of shoo him away...." Dont bother Mary, Timmy, shes had a hard day" ...if Mary says, " oh I dont care" well then let him whiff away...but if Mary doesnt say anything you know it bothers her and he has to stop. It could even effect who even comes to your house and so you will probably have a little talk with him . Again I wouldnt focus on the " foot fetish" just the whole we cant impose on people and that they are not just objects for our own pleasures...no shame, no disgust, just we have to respect others and this includes close personal space as well.
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Good advice - thank you. It is hard for me too to say it is a fetish - I think we're somewhat clueless on when the desires truly begin, so I can't say whether it is sexual or not yet.
One thing, which prompted my question, is if Mary says she doesn't care, is it sexual? That's the hardest part for me. For instance, if Mary slept over in the guestroom and we found him sniffing her panties and Mary even said it was cute (though I doubt she would), I think we'd all agree that scent is private and it wouldn't be appropriate (which is why Mary would doubtfully say yes). Foot scent is a bit more tricky - not sure whether to treat it like you said (a boundary that if permissible is okay) or like the panties scenario.
Would love to hear your perspective here - thanks in advance!
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Unfortunately, even if your workmates said it was O.K., they still might feel creeped out by it...so you're right back to reinforcing personal boundaries with him...all I am saying is dont get into the whole sexual and fetish thing...just that he needs to respect personal boundaries with others. No shaming, no its some big deal that will affect him the rest of his life....Parents often have to impose limits on kids.
There's nothing wrong with it, I did the same even younger and still love women's feet and toes, Smelling, Kissing, Licking and sucking all over the feet and toes.my cell is 716-708-0637 My name is Steve.
Ur son smelling feet in nylons is normal,I am 50 and started with my foot fetish when I was around 7,would smell my moms feet under the table when she was on the phone,she wore nude hose everyday and her feet smelled great!! She never yelled at me or made me feel bad about it,when my aunts would come over id smell their feet also and they thought it’s was cute,he will just find a woman when he is older who will do this for him like I did,I met my wife when we were 15 and she wore nude knee HI’s,she let me smell her feet almost immediately and loved that I did it,unfortunately she passed away in 2018 but I had an amazing life with her and ur son will find someone who will fill that foot fetish for him,as for now I say let him smell ur pantyhose and ur feet,it’s harmless at his age!!!