Sometimes pee when i climax

Is it normal to pee when I climax, I dont do it all the time, only sometimes. how do I fix it, cause I would rather just climax without having to clean up a whole sh*t load of wetness, I think its kinda gross. My boyfriend likes it but I dont think he really knows the difference, hes only had sex with one other person, and I dont know if she did it too, so he may think this is normal. What should I do? I dont need or have the urge to pee before we have sex or I would go before we start anything, so what could I try?

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  • It is caused by an intense climax which causes you to relax your bladder control muscles at the same time as you climax. An ex of mine used to have the same problem, still does for all I know. We used a very large bath towel under her so we didn't soil the bed. She did it EVERYTIME she climaxed. Get used to it cuz I doubt there is anything you can do about it.

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    • missy

      I understand that but if you have no urfe to pee, then how is your blatter full? would it help if I force myself to pee before we have sex? but for the most part we dont plan on having it, we just do it, and I doubt that it would be a turn on to say I have to pee real quick ill be right back. We use a towel too, but I dont do it everytime, only sometimes, do I have a weak blatter, or what, if I do, how do I fix that?

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      • Your bladder doesn't have to be full and it is NEVER empty. My guess is that when you climax it is quite intense when you have this "problem". It is merely the muscles that control the flow of urine being relaxed because of the intensity of your climax. Not much that can be done about it. I'd say as many as 30%% of your fellow females would love to have your "problem" since they seldom climax at all. Don't allow this to become a problem to you. Enjoy it and may the force be with you.

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      • ozwald_somégüy

        just pee on his cock if thats what hes into thats what im in to so.

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      • timemaster86

        visit your doctor if you really want to slove it that bad there are operations to have muscles tightened

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  • renreb88

    i have peed during sex a few times... like just a little. it made me cum harder hehe

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  • Hawk64

    It is not pee. It is perfectly normal. It has been scientifically analyzed and almost no urine is in the substance secreted by some women when they orgasm. The stimulation of the G-spot correctly can cause many woman to squirt. I have been with women who do and don't and who never knew they could. Just google it and type the word medical in so that you do not get a bunch of porn

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  • Xanadu

    It's fairly common. If your man likes it, then I wouldn't worry about it. Whenever possible, try to prepare for it by putting down towels or a Sham-Wow cloth or something. Go with the flow, (no pun intended).

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  • First of all Your a DUMB DUMB. Urine is not "gross," your partner accepts you as you are. Most likely your just cumming and there is nothing wrong with that. Every female has the urge to "pee" when she climax but you try to hold it, thats retarded. In fact its great I think thats beautiful, too much females have this prudish view about it and punish themselves.

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    • Kristy122

      No she is not a dumb dumb peeing is not normal when climaxing , squirting is.

      Squirting is mizture of urine and cum.

      Straight peeing is not normal what so ever. The dr's have medication for over active bladder for at night that is something that she could look into that will stop the over active bladder and her peeing problem.

      That was not a helpful answer to her question what so ever. Pee is smelly and i am sure she did not want to piss on her lover or mate while having intercourse or lesbian sexual intament exsperience.

      I would of told her this empty your bladder before sexual intercourse or intamacy i would od told her inportant things instead of calling her a dumb dumb that to us was not a helpful answer there is no dumb questions to any answer.That is why we come to sites like this for help.

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  • Indawei

    Its not pee! You have an amazing ability that only some women do, and that is squirting! Its so cool! Dont be so down that it happens, because its a good thing... I've never met a girl that can do that actually.

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  • maddey65

    pee on him pee all u want,let it out pee is fun

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  • slackjawedyokel

    tell everyone youre squirting some kind of mysterious sex fluid.and if they are like this nitwit bunch in here they will believe it and think it soooooooooo sexy!

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  • okmijnuhbygvtfc

    maybe ur man likes pee

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  • maddey65

    Id love if a guy peed on my pussy. MMMMM HOT!!!

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  • AllGeminisToTheRaspberryHats

    my guess could be its just a weak sphincter muscle. have you ever accidentally wet yourself befor, not during sex??? if so then this could be the issue. apparentky there are excersise you can do to strentghen this muscle or you could visit a doctor for porofessional advice. but if your BF dosent care about it, then you shouldnt worry to much

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  • fulcypoo

    I think this is pretty normal! If you want make it a part of sex and pee before you cum! Golden showers! If you drink lots of water your peepee will be clear and you can have a diamond shower! And diamonds are a girls best friend!

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  • infinite

    Just pee on your boyfriend, he'll like it. I WISH girls weren't so weird about pee, It's a huge turn off when a girl finishes and then says "i gotta pee" and runs to the bathroom. Just pee on your guy's chest face or wherever you think is good.

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  • Kristy122

    Peeing while climaxing is not normal unless you are squirting that is a large gush of urine and cum mixture. But other wise it is not normal to pee while climaxing.

    Sounds like it is a over active bladder it happends to women alot while they are maturing and getting older or if they had kids the uteris is stretched out some that takes it toll on the bladder.

    The bladder should be emptied out before sexual intamacy.
    Go to the bathroom and pee before having sex that way you know you are not peeing clean out your vigina so u are sure you are not going to pee on your lover no one likes to be peed on and it is embrassing

    if the bladder was emptied but you still are peeing at climax my thinking is it is over active bladder that is something to say to the dr. Or a infection of some kind a std or P.I.D ( pelvic inflammatory disease) or a bladder infection. Check with your dr about it she or he would tell you what the causes can be.

    I would stay away from liquids bedfore intamacy time or climaxing . and I would say that things like that is not a normal thing unless you like peeing while climaxing if so then that is a fetish not a sexual normal experience.

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    • TwilightPsycho

      >no one likes to be peed on
      What are you talking about?
      I'd love to have a girl pee all over my cock.

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  • mrsjones

    research female ejaculation and try urinating before sex to confirm that its not urnine babe, ur prob just ejaculation from orgasm of pressure on your g-spot

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  • nargaroth666

    just take a piss first...

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  • Yourarenormal

    You are peeing, I do the same thing. I have read all of the answers above, Kristy is the most comical and has no clue of what she is talking about. This has nothing to do with ejaculating and everything to do with relaxation. I have went to my OBGYN and unfortunately it is an ultimate argument with your insurance company and your OBGYN. Their is a procedure they can do to tighten the muscles surrounding your bladder. They consider it a cosmetic surgery and not necessity. When you climax, you are at complete relaxation, hence your bladder included. There is always urine in your bladder. You just are one of the lucky ones who are really able to enjoy your orgasm. Go see your OB and start the process. Once the procedure is done, however, their is no guarantee you will not urinate due to how we are able to relax.

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  • flamer180

    Your boyfriend has a pee fetish. Obvious.

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  • richardbturgid

    This is a sign of being a well developed healthy woman. Wish my wife did that!

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  • MudKipz

    you have cancer

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