I think many people have been in the same situation as you find yourself now. It is very sad, because I am sure you love this man with all your heart and put him first in your life. You just want the same from him. And you should. It is fair in a relationship that you are both putting each other first. But that isn't what is happening. It sounds like he likes you....likes being with you....but not the same as you love him. I don't want to say this, but I must: it kind of sounds like he is taking advantage of you, in that you are always there for him and loving him with all your heart, but he isn't giving you the same back.
This can't be good for you. It can't be good for your self-esteem. Yes, you want more....you want and deserve someone who is there for you 100%%, not any less.
But it doesn't sound like this man is the one. It will be hard....but my advice is to move on. Not to "teach him a lesson"...but to find someone who is good for you, who loves and treasures you....who puts you FIRST, not last. You deserve that in your life. Please try to gather the strength to break it off with him. You have your whole life ahead of you.
sometimes love is aint enough
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I think many people have been in the same situation as you find yourself now. It is very sad, because I am sure you love this man with all your heart and put him first in your life. You just want the same from him. And you should. It is fair in a relationship that you are both putting each other first. But that isn't what is happening. It sounds like he likes you....likes being with you....but not the same as you love him. I don't want to say this, but I must: it kind of sounds like he is taking advantage of you, in that you are always there for him and loving him with all your heart, but he isn't giving you the same back.
This can't be good for you. It can't be good for your self-esteem. Yes, you want more....you want and deserve someone who is there for you 100%%, not any less.
But it doesn't sound like this man is the one. It will be hard....but my advice is to move on. Not to "teach him a lesson"...but to find someone who is good for you, who loves and treasures you....who puts you FIRST, not last. You deserve that in your life. Please try to gather the strength to break it off with him. You have your whole life ahead of you.