Sometimes bothers me my girlfriend is bi-sexual, iin?

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Ive been with my girlfriend for 8 or 9 months now, i found out she was bi about 5 months ago. Shes very attractive and has had sexual intimacy with other girls a lot, before i came around. She said most guys (ex boyfriends) love it that she does this and sometimes try to get her to do it so he can watch. But the only thing i can think of is jealousy. I dont like the idea of her being with anyone else but me, a girl would be cheating. Is this normal?

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  • Ono
    11 years ago | pl

    A monogamous relationship is a monotonous relationship whatever the orientation of the people on it. That's what you want and there's nothing wrong with that.

    Sometimes people get ideas that bisexuals will need both genders for fulfillment when that's not the case at all. They're just attracted to either gender.

    If its you who keeps bringing up the topic then you'll need to find a way to get over it.

    But if it's your girlfriend that keeps bringing up the idea of her being intimate with a woman then it sounds like she's not the monogamous type and is looking for a way for her to have a more open relationship.

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  • Ono
    11 years ago | pl

    Urgh monogamous not monotonous. I blame Freud.

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  • iloveeyouusz
    11 years ago | pl

    All my boyfriends seemed to be fine with me being bi-sexual and they all ask if they could watch and they don't find it cheating at all, don't be jealous(:

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  • beardsareforrealmen
    11 years ago | pl

    It almost sounds like she is trying to use a loophole to be unfaithful lol

    just go with the threesome, that way both of you get to do the nasty with a different person

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  • JuliusE
    11 years ago | pl

    Yes, it is normal to feel jealousy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    I see where you're coming from. Just talk to her. Share your feelings with her on the subject. Maybe she then she'll only have eyes for you.

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  • DubstepismyMJ
    11 years ago | pl

    ummmmm.........threesome maybe ?? 0_0

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