I don't want to agree with this but then I thought of all of the people who have tried to be my friend vs. all of the people who I have actually decided to spend time with and it confirms what you said.
At the same time...
@OP
I know that I would be able to have these friends as friends if I put the effort into making the conversation but I don't want to because there ARE people out there with whom I can make easy conversation with.
By effort I mean nitpick. "What did you do in class today? What subject are you taking? How do you feel about that subject? What is your favorite subject? Why?" you can get a person talking about something they love if you ask them enough stupid but necessary questions. I have made some friends because they had interests that I wanted to learn about. So it's up to you. Don't waste your time if you are not willing to put forth the effort. s
Some people I just cant have a conversation with
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I don't want to agree with this but then I thought of all of the people who have tried to be my friend vs. all of the people who I have actually decided to spend time with and it confirms what you said.
At the same time...
@OP
I know that I would be able to have these friends as friends if I put the effort into making the conversation but I don't want to because there ARE people out there with whom I can make easy conversation with.
By effort I mean nitpick. "What did you do in class today? What subject are you taking? How do you feel about that subject? What is your favorite subject? Why?" you can get a person talking about something they love if you ask them enough stupid but necessary questions. I have made some friends because they had interests that I wanted to learn about. So it's up to you. Don't waste your time if you are not willing to put forth the effort. s