So much bad sex, so little time?

I think you said something many women feel, and it's a very valid statement. Men can get excited, erect and then ejaculate in a matter of minutes. Don't we know that so well?? A woman is engineered differently, though. We take a bit to warm up - that's how our bodies are made.

As we get older, demands such as working schedules, kids, home and other responsibilities reduce the time we have for intimacy. The male can masturbate himself in less than three minutes - go from soft to hard and be done with everything in that short of time. That's the way they are wired and we're never going to change that.

My suggestion is that you do what many women do..... carve out some time for just you and him, where you can be intimate and cuddle - where you do that certain special something he really loves.... you know what I mean...... and spend some time being close because that is what fulfills us as females.

Then, at other times, like in the morning when he wakes up - give him a quick handjob or blowjob. All guys wake up with erections in the morning because their T-level is at the highest point of the day. If you want to get his attention, get him off when you/he wakes up and then ask him, "Honey, on Friday night can we spend some time together to cuddle and make love with out hurrying?"

If you try the morning trick 2 or 3 times a week, by the 2nd or 3rd week, he'll gladly make time for you on Friday night.

Guys are wired differently than we are. They don't need the emotional stability and support we need. They want to get off - and for them, the three minute handjob or three minute blowjob is just as fulfilling as the two hour love making session all us ladies want.

Talk to your man. Ask him what his fantasies are and ask him if he wants to role play fantasies with you. Believe me, that will get his attention. Take him lingerie shopping with you and ask him to help you pick out the panties that will turn him on Friday night. Take him to the adult toy store and pick out a toy for you and a toy for him, and then tell him how horny it made you to go with him to buy the toys. Trust me, he'll make time.

Hope this helps.

This isnt the medical field , so theres no reason to use cute fancy medical teminology.
It has been called a COCK for the last 46 years , since 1970 in the bedroom , on the street , in the work place , at the store , at the dinner table , in school , in everyday life , etc.
Get with the program.
This isnt the 1960's.

I personally enjoy the foreplay but my wife on the other hand usually (but not all of the time) likes the wam bam I got off and I'm happy Good Night.