So i needed advil and my bf

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So earlier in the day yesterday I had a headache and took the last of the advil at my bfs house.: when he got home I told him he was out. I didn't need it at the time tho... but later I got another big headache and I did end up needing them... and when i asked him to get it for me... he flipped!! Started yelling at me and saying how I was insane and how I should've gotten them earlier (I didn't need them earlier. He was saying how he was gonna break up with me cuz I said "if you love me you would do this.. which is fucking true) . He ended up getting them but after that he came in yelling at how my parking outside was horrible. Just a bad night. Idk what to do

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RoseIsabella

6 years ago

He sounds like someone who's not so much worth needing.

You probably should have bought some NSAID pain relievers on your way home from his house, because logic would dictate that if you don't have any pain relievers you ought to get some as you would eventually need them at some point as we all do. It's a very cheap shot for you to attempt to emotionally blackmail him by telling him, "if you love me you'll go to the store and get me some", but what I'm most concerned with is his bad temper. I personally think he got all angry for nothing.

He's probably not the one for you.

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- Hateful1
  
  6 years ago
  
  Well Rose what if she does this all the time. Needy self-abscessed women piss me off too. Did she give him a minute or two to relax. Did she ask how he was. Did she ask why he was mad. Maybe there was something going on in his life. But instead of asking how he was the first thing she did was ask him to go back out and get something. Something she could easily could have gotten herself. And when he got upset she challenged their relationship.
  
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- Kevinevan
  
  6 years ago
  
  It's probably not the first time she has used the "if you love me" card. She is probably one of those people who never plans for the future then blames others for her lack of preparation. This guy has probably dealt with it a billion times and is fed up with her.
  
  He should have let her suffer the headache. She knew full well what she was doing. It's not ok to lose your cool but he should not go to the store either.
  
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e51pegasi

6 years ago

So this was a fracas about running out of ibuprofen & piss poor parking?

I'm sure the millions of starving, homeless & people suffering with terminal illness share your suffering.

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- Hateful1
  
  6 years ago
  
  I am applauding you right now.
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  So what ru saying.. who's in the wrkng
  
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  - Kevinevan
    
    6 years ago
    
    You both are. He should have calmly told you tough shit. You should have bought your own medicine.
    
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rayb12

6 years ago

"If you loved me you would do this" is a shitty thing to say. Imagine hearing that from him

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- Kevinevan
  
  6 years ago
  
  Right, his reply should have been "if you loved me you'd have bought your own medicine instead of taking me for granted that I would be at your beck and call."
  
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  - rayb12
    
    6 years ago
    
    Or "if you loved me you'd suck my diiiyyyuuuckk!"
    
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    - Kevinevan
      
      6 years ago
      
      She has a headache. He aint gettin shit 😂😂😂
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        6 years ago
        
        You guys are rude.
        
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        rayb12
        
        6 years ago
        
        What you did was wrong, but I'll take that, I am rude lol
        
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        Kevinevan
        
        6 years ago
        
        No you are rude to your boyfriend for expecting him to take care of your personal needs, then questioning his love when he objects.
        
        He is not your errand boy. When you use up all of someones stuff, replace it. Take your ass to the store and buy some fucking aspirin.
        
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- madi18181
  
  6 years ago
  
  Its true tho.. a bf that loves his gf would do anything for them...
  
  Maybe I should've worded it differently, but it's true...
  
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mia500

6 years ago

He sounds like he has anger issues, maybe talk to him about how he's been feeling? The "if you love me line" is dramatic but he's even more dramatic for saying he's gonna break up with you for that..

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paramore93

6 years ago

You should have asked him to pick some up while he was out .. I'd be pissed if I got home and was sent straight back out again ..

Also 'if you love me you would do this'?
Manipulative much?

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Boojum

6 years ago

Yes, of course it is the right and proper role of a boyfriend to run around after his girlfriend because, after all, everyone knows girls are really pretty stupid and unable to look after themselves.

It is also one of the jobs of a boyfriend to keep his house stocked with any medications his girlfriend might possibly need. She bears no responsibility for looking after this because, as we all know, girls are too ditzy to remember to replace things they use, and no one can reasonably expect them to spend money on their own needs.

Seriously, the "If you love me, you would..." line is so fucking manipulative it's untrue. You used the damn Advil, you were apparently out where you could buy some, you didn't - because, like, once you've had a headache, you'll never get another one... in your world... apparently...

So it was your bad, and his annoyance was totally justified.

Oh, and in a moment when you don't have a headache, go figure out how to fucking park. You're apparently really shit at it.

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GenderConfused

6 years ago

What kind of a day did he have? Did he have to deal with something stressful at work, or was it just not a good day for him. Did you even bother asking him how his day was?
Or did you, like most women, just expect to get your way.

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bob7

6 years ago

I vote normal , but you arent

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  6 years ago
  
  Why am I not normal
  
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redrainbow22

6 years ago

Stress?

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- Boojum
  
  6 years ago
  
  Her boyfriend certainly is stressed... for obvious reasons.
  
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    6 years ago
    
    What reasons
    
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Idk. He's 26, doesn't have a job, lives off his parents and is still in college.. is this bad? And also is what he did okay??
  
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  - Hateful1
    
    6 years ago
    
    Was it his house? Does he live with his parents? If so where his parents home when you where there? Do you have a job? How do you pay for things?
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      It was his house, he doesn't live with his parents, I have a job, and I can pay for it no problem but it's his house!!! And I had a migraine
      
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      - Ellenna
        
        6 years ago
        
        I've suffered from migraines all my life and I NEVER let myself run out of the appropriate medication, which in my case is a temazepam and a couple of panadeine forte, followed by a good lie down in a dark quiet place.
        
        The "if you loved me" line is just ridiculous but he sounds ridiculous too for reacting in that way.
        
        If you didn't park properly with a migraine I can understand why because your vision would've been affected, right? And for you to drive anywhere with a migraine would be dangerous
        
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      - Hateful1
        
        6 years ago
        
        La De Da. Go to your house and get it. Why were in his house when he wasn't there?
        
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So i needed advil and my bf