So i have this friend... iin?

6% Normal
4 Comments

So I have this male friend who's girlfriend I used to know pretty well.. but I haven't spoken to her in a long time.

The male friend is telling me that she just does not want sex. Like at all. They have been very regular for about 5 years now and suddenly she just doesn't want to know. This guy hasn't had sex in about 2+ years and all he does is complain to me about it.

He has also cheated on her before with his brothers girlfriend and she stayed with him. I really don't know what they're getting from this relationship. Some may say it's not my business (which I know it isn't) but they make it everyone's business by complaining to everyone they know. She also refuses to let him have condoms in his house in case he's using them on someone else. Surely this relationship isn't normal??

Is It Normal?
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 4 ) Sort: best | oldest
  • RainbowDischarge
    8 years ago | pl

    Sounds like they're wasting each others time.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    2
    2
  • ArayaLioness
    8 years ago | pl

    Unfortunately, these types of relationships are certainly "normal" in quantity (many people are in sexless marriages/relationships), but I would think it is a tumultuous and toxic relationship itself.

    I understand what you're saying about how they're complaining to everyone about their relationship and how you feel it's not your business, but when they do, have you ever offered advice?

    For instance, the next time the guy complains, I would ask:

    1) Do you know WHY she stopped having sex?
    2) Does she know how important sex to you is in the relationship and how it's negatively affecting you (besides the obviousness of cheating)?
    3) Why are YOU still with her? Why is SHE still with you?

    Or you could offer for them to see a sex/therapist.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • immortalchild15
    8 years ago | pl

    your friends sounds like a desperate dick

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    1
    1
  • Daisybee
    8 years ago | pl

    Weird. Couldn't hack that

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    Report
    0
    0