So i had sex.. and it wasent that good

I had sex for the first time.. and it wasent that good.. it did hurt a little but not too much.. and then it didnt hurt anymore. (Im a girl) And the guy couldnt cum, before after when we did oral.. is this normal? Why cant he cum? (We have only done it twice, -he is my boyfriend too)

Is It Normal?
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  • Stage fright being a noon. That's bout it

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  • majority of women do not orgasm from vaginal sex
    however a lot of it is because of atmosphere, the right person, anxiety.

    You should know from now on that sex is not magic, it doesn't just magically make you feel good.

    YOU make sex feel good. you have to enjoy the person you're doing it with, enjoy their enjoyment, enjoy the sensations or situations. If your brain is turned on, it can make all the difference.

    Also once you are relaxed and enjoying being with your partner, you should have him try different positions, maybe he can hit your Gspot.

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  • How old is he?

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  • Vaginal sex isn't enjoyable for everyone, and that's normal and okay if it's the case. Try anal too, you might enjoy it more.

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  • guys need different things to help them get into it fully just like girls.
    I can't cum unless I do some moving, it used to annoy my last girlfriend she could suck me off for an hour but unless I did some moving I couldn't finish

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    • Same with me. Got to have some kinda hip motion or straining of the glutes

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