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I am curious about one of my wife's behaviors: She keeps a pair of soiled mens underwear (not mine!)in her nightstand wrapped tightly in a baggie. On a regular basis she takes them out to sniff them while masturbating! I know she loves the smell and I am aware that she does it even though she is unaware that I know (I check on them periodically) She does this about once a week. Why would a woman want to do this? Should I be worried?
Perhaps it is creepy that I check on them, but when I see that she has done it, I can yank one off real quick because it gets me so excited to think that she is fantasizing about another man. I want to have sex with her and have her describe to me everything that she wants to do with/to the other man while "doing" me instead!
OK a little sick-ish I guess...
Smell is one of the most primal senses, so I'm sure this thing is stimulating something very deep beyond her control.
We all do some pretty screwy things when it comes to sexual gratification, and I'm sure you have tossed-off to fantasies that do not involve your wife. Should she feel threatened? And neither should you.
It IS a little creepy that you are checking and keeping a record of her activity. Give her some space and a little privacy.