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Yeah im a no-lifer with no social life etc so im almost most time at the computer, well is that the cause to this or am I just retarded or something?
Cause I often feel stiff and sometimes slow and sometimes I talk weird etc, lol, maybe just cause I ain't active in sports and stuff
There are many people like you. I have a friend like this. She managed to go to college and has a good job. She has a good heart and so we overlook her slow delays in responding.
Hiding behind the keyboard and CRT is a good shield from getting hurt by people and situations. I do it when I just want to retreat and rest for a while.
My guess is that you do not know any (or many) techniques on how to assert yourself and your interests when around others. That can be larned and practiced.
But when one gets walked on or bullied a few times is seems easier to just stay away. You said you talk stiff, slow, and inappropriately because you are just nervous, that invites more bullying. I see the pattern. I know a few people like that.
You are NOT a tard OR defective!