Single mom

I'm a single mom, have been seeing black men over the last year since my divorce. I've been chatting with some guys in other countries, and once the covid travel restrictions are lifted, would like to explore a relationship. I know I should be careful, am I way out of line?

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  • I think single mothers (and fathers) have the right to have fun and enjoy life as long as their kid(s) remain their first priority. There are lots of things I'd like to do that became impossible the moment my daughter arrived, but that's just one of the prices you pay for becoming a parent.

    However, if you believe even half of what guys you're "dating" online say, then you're so dumb that I really feel for your kid(s). And if you're so stupid that you'd go off to some foreign country to meet one of those guys on his home turf based on nothing more than what they've said online, then I question whether you're fit to be in charge of a child.

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  • Have you heard of actually being a mom instead of chasing after black men like some creep and setting horrible examples for your children by being so desperate for dick you travel around in a pandemic?

    WT.

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    • Pretty sure she specified after the pandemic you racist POS.

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    • Hun, i have not traveled that far from the tiny town i live in and i have no intention on traveling to another country till the travel bans are lifted and i'm vaccinated. I have a life too.

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  • Chances are they are not genuine and will try to use you as a way Into the country. Try to look for black men that live in the United States

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  • Ever heard of race baiting?

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  • Fake news.

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  • How old are your kids? If they are still young and living at home with you then how are you realistically going to pursue a meaningful relationship with someone who lives in another country without massively impacting your children?

    And if it won't be a meaningful relationship then what's the point? Just hook up with a local

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    • my kids are 7 and 9. I'm not ready for a serious relationship tho.

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      • Then what's the point in trying to meet up with men in other countries when you don't even know them?

        If you don't want anything serious just date local and get a baby sitter for the evening. Much less risky and involved.

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  • Id look for a guy to settle down with. Maybe even a guy with a kid also. That way he could be a role model for your children

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  • Have you heard of post traumatic stress disorder?

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  • That's the modern world for you

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  • I mean you should probably find someone closer to your area. Try tinder or Bumble. Always meet in public places and preferably have video calls before you visit them. I'm telling this as a man, who knows how many predators are out there.

    If you really going to visit your potential partner in a foreign country, always have enough money to book even the most expensive room in the city, cause others might be full and you don't want to sleep in the streets in case he will be off.

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  • you have the right to choose your partner again, but becareful,look for someone in your country.not certainly BLACKS. i can understand why you want BIG BLACK DUDE.
    (FINGERS CROSSED FOR YOU)

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