Single & hating it!

This is perfectly normal. Nearly all of us want to have someone in our lives we can relate to, connect with, share experiences with, and most importantly, have frequent sex with. Some of us want to fall in love, or have children, or be taken care of. However, things frequently go wrong, and finding the right person can be quite difficult. So, if you learn how to be single, and not dependent on someone, it will make you stronger. You will be in a better position to choose a mate who is right for you.

I haven't been single in a long time until now, and I am actually enjoying the freedom. I didn't have a bf until the tenth grade and I felt ugly, invisible, and unworthy because no one seemed to express any interest in me... Peh. That's what I felt when I was single for a long time and I hated the feeling too. This post is fairly old...but here's my thoughts anyways :P

I hate itttt, I feel so lonely!

Remember the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I find when single I'm lonely and when in a relationship I miss my sexual, social, and financial freedom

If you can't handle being single you'll suck at relationships,annoying and clingy

I'd love being single

i hate it too, especially when all my friends have boyfriends and i feel really left out, and loads of people have asked me out i keep saying no, i dont know why :S

Try to focus on other things for a start-- date sites are good just beware and meet the person to make sure they're not feeding you a load of BS..You can write a list of what you want in a mate and if the important qualities are met then you might have something. I think everyone is lonely just don't settle for less..

Hey i feel the exact same way. I hate being single. Its weird cause Im a handsome guy(im not self-centered) and i have a cool personality, but i cant seem to find the rite someone. have u tried clubbing

Previous poster is absolutely right. You're not the only one who feels this way. Probably 99%% of single people feel this way. But finding companionship will take time and your time will come.

Heack yes it's normal. I'm 18 and ive never have a boyfriend and i absolutly hate it! Oh well, we are an exclusive club. I'm in what my friends call the VLC(Virgin Lips club) and what i have just made up..the (NBDC) Never Been Dated Club. lol

Good luck though. :)

of course it's normal.
i can't stand being single

How the hell is that normal you weirdo