Should you know every part of your partner's body after two years?
She's upset I couldn't tell her where all her moles are located.
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She's upset I couldn't tell her where all her moles are located.
You seem like a careless dude. And she's probably just pointing out another example of you not caring enough. But that's only based off the little you said.
So what if you don't remember every single mole of her body? She had years to memorize that shit and she's fulltime on that body, you just got there with only parttime hours.
What matters more is how well you know her personally. Her habits, mannerisms, and such. For example, my boyfriend knows when I'm having a bad day just by looking at me or hearing the sound of my voice when on the phone; he knows what my bad habits are and fuss/tease me about em' and more. So the next time she hits you with this bullshit, tell her things about herself that she never told you, but you picked up on and do it playfully aggressive like, "HEY! I may not know every hair follicle on your face, but I know you like this, you favorite food is that, and your favorite show is this, now what?!"
I mean there are two options here, either the gf is literally and actually crazy, or he's apathetic and neglectful and this was just an example she tossed out. If it's the latter he won't be able to do anything you've suggested anyway. She probably has some huge honking mole on her back that after five years he hasn't noticed was there. I haven't put any special effort into learning my partners moles but I do know where the bigger ones are.
Three. She could be PMSing and handling it poorly.
Logically, moles aren't a big deal. Also, he mentioned that their relationship is 2 years old; 2 years (more or less) is around the time most relationships hit that wall and either go forward or break up over dumb shit.
Most of the time, when a woman is "PMSing" and gets pissed, it's over stuff she's angry about when she's not PMSing anyway. A PMSing woman has the same hormone levels as a man does every day of the month. Dismissing a woman because you think she's PMSing is a great way to ruin a relationship because you're either wrong and being a sexist dick, or you're right and also kind of being a sexist dick.
Nah. Not all women are the same, and I would know since I am a woman and have PMS countless times. I'm very self-aware and can feel when my mood shift over dumb shit, like how I got very angry for my boyfriend drinking the last bit of water in our pitcher and forgot to refill it. He does this here and there, and I know iit's not a big deal cause I got hands and know how to work the sink; but when I'm PMSing I'm ready to yell at him, but I stop myself because logic. Also, yeah, there have been times I flew off the handle for tiny shit during PMS, and my boyfriend handles it well until logic comes back and I apologize after talking it out, so I'm far from perfect.
Also how is focusing on logical facts about knowing her personality and likes/dislikes is considered "dismissing" her feelings about the mole? New moles can appear on our body at any given moment and you mean to say a partner suppose to know that shit the moment it happens? The fuck... you can throw the sexism card at me all you want little kitten, but when I see crazy and call it for what it is whether it be man or woman.
If you're so very self-aware, why do you say you act like an utter turd and blame it on your PMS? I don't know any women who do that; the only women I know who act like turds on their cycle are acting like turds all the time.
Projecting your personal dysfunctions on strangers isn't acting on facts. Big moles randomly appearing on your body is a flashing neon sign warning about cancer, not a thing to shrug off.
why should you care?
what kinda crazy bitch gits worked up over such nonsense?
If it makes her happy, start memorizing her moles and all her other imperfections as well. Ingrown hairs, blemishes, rashes... make sure to exaggerate how bad they look.
I would tell her that her moles don't really interact, but that I'm intimately familiar with her ear, and know exactly how it feels when I lick it.
I've had an ex like that. Crazy chick from the Philippines, she wanted me to know every single detail about her. Bitches like that are messed up.
Babe, I'm a regular dude, not the FBI to keep track of every single detail on your skin, in your past, dreams, future, feelings, etc...
I don't know how many moles I have on my own body and you expect me to remember yours?! Hahahahahaha!
Do you want a boyfriend, or a logbook?!
Glad my current girlfriend doesn't give a fuck if I don't know how many moles she has XD
That sounds like something someone would do if they were looking for a fight. Either that, or she's looking for reasons to believe that you don't _really_ care about her.
In any case, it's a bloody stupid thing to get upset about.