Should u wait for sex

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should i wait till i am married for sex

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  • disthing
    8 years ago | pl

    You should have sex when you feel ready to have sex.

    Simple as that.

    If you think having sex before marriage compromises your values, don't do it. If you think marriage is utterly irrelevant when it comes to losing your virginity, then go for it.

    Do what you feel comfortable doing when you feel comfortable doing it.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Absolutely NOT. Would you rather go to your marriage bed an experienced lover, with the ability to understand your wife's needs and give her pleasure, or spend your wedding night fumbling around as a clueless oaf? There are some things you cannot learn from the internet.

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    • PandaBitch
      8 years ago | pl

      Experienced or not, couple married not bcoz he/she had so much sex experienced but bcoz they love each other.. if he wait until he get married, it means that he'll be completely hers not an ex of someone's pussy

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      • Nick'sTardis
        8 years ago | pl

        I think I agree with panda here it does seem wrong but otherwise i still don't know

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        • disthing
          8 years ago | pl

          Why does it seem wrong?

          Are you religious?

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          • Nick'sTardis
            8 years ago | pl

            na I just want it to be special

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            • PandaBitch
              8 years ago | pl

              Special here means a 'special' for someone we love ... yea i know 'first time' feels awkward but still it's WITH someone you love .. not a bitch or a slut

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            • Gspyder
              8 years ago | pl

              Then wait till you feel it will be special. That can mean waiting for marriage but not necessarily. I'm In school full-time not at a point in my life where I can get married so I just waited for love. It was/is pretty special with her.

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            • disthing
              8 years ago | pl

              Well don't go around thinking it's some kind of amazing thing, or you're setting yourself up for disappointment.

              Ask anyone who has had sex, and most will say their first time was a bit awkward, not necessarily that good, maybe a bit embarrassing.

              After that, it gets better.

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    • TimmyTheTurtle
      8 years ago | pl

      i totally agree with this guy.. which is rare because i don't trust gypsies. especially when they are on a boat.

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  • (s)aint
    8 years ago | pl

    Wait until you are ready, if you are 14 or 50 it doesn't matter as long as you don´t feel forced to.

    First time is never special anyway, when you have lost your virginity and gained some experience first time is however special with a new partner.

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  • Riddler
    8 years ago | pl

    Wait till after 20 at least.

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  • SometimesNaive
    8 years ago | pl

    I refuse to do anything to break my hymen until I'm able to support kids. Preferrably after marriage. Not for religious reasons, I just don't wanna use contraceptives. And it's special to me.

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  • Amandaalarcon
    2 years ago | pl

    I come from a Catholic family and my Mom and our priest always told me I must be a virgin until I get married otherwise it's a sin. So at the age of 38 was the first time I had sex. I'm still not married and I can't believe I waited so many years to have sex. Now I can't get enough sex to satisfy me. So many years wasted because I was listening to other people. Now I will enjoy myself and have sex all the time and I don't care WHO they are. I live in Guatemala city

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  • Swan_Theif9854
    8 years ago | pl

    I voted marriage, but I meant when you find the right person

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