Should the girl or the guy propose?

Should a girl ask the guy to marry her, or should the guy ask the girl to marry him?

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  • I don't think it should matter honestly. It's just an antiquated gender role thing that we don't need.

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  • The girl could propose to the guy, the guy could propose to the girl, I'm in no position to say what either one should do! Lol.

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  • Me as a girl I wish the guy proposed :p

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  • Who cares who's gonna propose? They're gonna break up anyway sooner or later...

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  • While I think this is dependent on the relationship itself, I think traditionally, in my culture its more predominantly the male. Although it sometimes puzzles me when women wait 4 years plus for the man to propose, I feel like saying "well if you want to marry him so bad why don't you propose?"
    I suppose in some situations the woman needs to hear it from him so she knows he's committed to the idea long term.

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  • In our feminist society, where both genders are equal, the MAN should propose, obviously.

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  • I don't think it matters, but so far, I haven't heard of a story of a girl proposing to a guy. :/

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  • I feel if you're both interested in each other then it shouldn't matter.

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  • It doesn't matter.

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  • Who proposes anymore?

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    • I Know Right? Most people just assume they're married at some point in time.

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  • i say the other way around because it would be awesome to have a few lovely women come up to me and ask "OH PLEASE will you marry me"

    Not going to happen but..still.

    it also depends on your culture in Brazil rarely do they have the big romantic "will you marry me guy on one knee" thing. a lot of times the couple sits down and talks about it to decide or not. I think either way is fine though if you are a bit old fashioned the guy should ask yes. but in this day and age it really doesnt matter.

    nothing wrong with mixing it up a bit.

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  • I always wondered what it would be like for a woman to propose to a man. So I looked up on youtube and found only one video, and it reaffirmed by belief that only men should propose.

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  • Either one. It doesn't matter.

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  • Whoever works up the nerve first should propose. I'm a woman and I would rather do the proposing personally.

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  • Im married and the man should definatly propose, or else it seems like the girl is desperate. My man proposed to me. And I would never propose to a guy. Please. Only a fugly girl would do that!

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  • women's supposedta drop less and less subtle hints until her fella finally bites the hook

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  • Divorce rates are 52% of all marriages. That means that you have more chance of having a failed marriage than a successful one.

    Based on that, I wouldn't want to get married and it doesn't matter to me who does it, it's a stupid decision.

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    • but that lucky diamond studded gal stands to inherit a whole gaggle o chickens n goats n well im embarrassed at my wealth but lets just say theres some bovines in the mix too

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      • I.....What?

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    • That is a false statistic.

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