Should my gf get a navel piercing if i want her to have it
I really feel attracted towards body piercings but my gf dont want do it.
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I really feel attracted towards body piercings but my gf dont want do it.
Just because you like them, does NOT GIVE YOU THE RIGHT OR AUTHORITY TO MAKE someone get one. You can be a better man and ASK HER if she would like to get one, and just as much she has a right to refuse and tell you to drop dead if you insist she gets one. You get more flys with honey than vinegar.
Would you get multiple facial piercings or start working your way towards having three-inch ear gauges if your girlfriend thought they were sexy?
If you really want a girlfriend who likes having chunks of metal embedded in various random bits of her anatomy, go find a girlfriend who's into this.
If you'd like to have your current girlfriend stick around, then I suggest you learn to accept that a girlfriend is not your property, and she has the right to make her own mind up about what happens to her body.
No. If you were married she should do what you want, but you’re not married so you have no authority over her. Even if you were married you should consider and respect her views, before deciding whether she should have it done. My husband decided a few years back he wanted my nipples pierced and rings put in them. I totally didn’t want them done and told him so. In the end he told me I was to have them done because he wanted to be able to chain me up by them for a sex game. It was his decision to make because when we married I became his property, so I had them done. But because he knew I didn’t really want them he let me take the rings out after a few months as a sign of respect for my wishes.
I think, it’s not a big deal. Almost every woman has her ears pierced from early childhood after all. One or two more small holes doesn’t matter.
My boyfriend was desperate for piercing my nipples and wearing small rings. I finally satisfied him after months of pleading and he was really happy man. I wear the rings only sporadically and I’m fine with two small holes in my nipples. And both sides are satisfied.
Thanks for explanation. I do know it's possible for some people to get really nasty infections from piercings: one person I know wnded up in hospital with a breast infection from a nipple piercing, but subsequently years later had multiple labia piercings which caused no problems at all.
Yeah, I had one nipple pierced decades back when it wasn't as common, but then had to take it out to have a mammogram, which is what they used to make you do back then and the hole closed up so fast I couldn't get the piercing back in.
It was my left nipple and I used to sit in very boring staff meetings with my arms crossed, playing with it with my right hand and arousing myself and no one ever knew!
I'll eventually get around to having it redone. I'm waiting for the covid thing to completely go away though: I'm not even getting a haircut unless I can find a hairdresser responsible enough to wear a mask in the salon.