I personally believe that nagging you is still a form of using force. Force isn't just brute force, it's also manipulation. If you are unwilling to do something, you shouldn't do it and pushing you into doing it is just as wrong as using brute force. I am young and I am not married, but I personally find your husband abusive. I wouldn't do this to my partner, precisely because of the discomfort. I think it's unfair for you and you seem to be unhappy. In your situation, I would insist on rejection and see how far things can go. If you notice that he insists so much that you have no choice, it means that you are abused. Always accepting and tolerating things is bad because you don't find out who your partner truly is. And you also end up accepting a lot of stuff you don't really want and this leads to unhappiness. My advice is learn how to say "no" and do it everytime you feel this way. Do not accept or tolerate this anymore.
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I personally believe that nagging you is still a form of using force. Force isn't just brute force, it's also manipulation. If you are unwilling to do something, you shouldn't do it and pushing you into doing it is just as wrong as using brute force. I am young and I am not married, but I personally find your husband abusive. I wouldn't do this to my partner, precisely because of the discomfort. I think it's unfair for you and you seem to be unhappy. In your situation, I would insist on rejection and see how far things can go. If you notice that he insists so much that you have no choice, it means that you are abused. Always accepting and tolerating things is bad because you don't find out who your partner truly is. And you also end up accepting a lot of stuff you don't really want and this leads to unhappiness. My advice is learn how to say "no" and do it everytime you feel this way. Do not accept or tolerate this anymore.