Don’t get me wrong he would never force me into anything but he will certainly nag me into things. If any of you guys think you have a nagging wife, which most of you probably do, but you ain’t heard nothing compared to my husband. I don’t really hate it, I know he loves it and I like to please him, but sometimes I could do with something a bit less challenging.
Anyway we’ve been married years, I’m 40 so his little fantasies are nothing new but not sure how much longer I should carry on fulfilling them. I mean I don’t feel old or anything and people always think I’m a lot younger but surly there comes a time when I’m too old for all that. I also sometimes feel a bit narked the fact that as the woman I’m always the one having to carry out these little games. He can sit there all warm and comfy in his man clothes and I’m feeling cold and vulnerable to preying eyes. One time it was winter and he had me lying in the snow naked so he could get photos of me, one of which now hangs on our bedroom wall. Sometimes I just think it should be him getting half his clothes off in a public place, but of course that will never happen.
You might well get too old for his games, but I don't know if that's about your chronological age, or just the amount of time you've been with the same guy hearing the same stuff.
Maybe you need to up your game. Tell him you're going to get a cock-cage if he doesn't start to behave himself.
I personally believe that nagging you is still a form of using force. Force isn't just brute force, it's also manipulation. If you are unwilling to do something, you shouldn't do it and pushing you into doing it is just as wrong as using brute force. I am young and I am not married, but I personally find your husband abusive. I wouldn't do this to my partner, precisely because of the discomfort. I think it's unfair for you and you seem to be unhappy. In your situation, I would insist on rejection and see how far things can go. If you notice that he insists so much that you have no choice, it means that you are abused. Always accepting and tolerating things is bad because you don't find out who your partner truly is. And you also end up accepting a lot of stuff you don't really want and this leads to unhappiness. My advice is learn how to say "no" and do it everytime you feel this way. Do not accept or tolerate this anymore.
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Don’t get me wrong he would never force me into anything but he will certainly nag me into things. If any of you guys think you have a nagging wife, which most of you probably do, but you ain’t heard nothing compared to my husband. I don’t really hate it, I know he loves it and I like to please him, but sometimes I could do with something a bit less challenging.
Anyway we’ve been married years, I’m 40 so his little fantasies are nothing new but not sure how much longer I should carry on fulfilling them. I mean I don’t feel old or anything and people always think I’m a lot younger but surly there comes a time when I’m too old for all that. I also sometimes feel a bit narked the fact that as the woman I’m always the one having to carry out these little games. He can sit there all warm and comfy in his man clothes and I’m feeling cold and vulnerable to preying eyes. One time it was winter and he had me lying in the snow naked so he could get photos of me, one of which now hangs on our bedroom wall. Sometimes I just think it should be him getting half his clothes off in a public place, but of course that will never happen.
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When do you think you'll be too old for sex?
You might well get too old for his games, but I don't know if that's about your chronological age, or just the amount of time you've been with the same guy hearing the same stuff.
Maybe you need to up your game. Tell him you're going to get a cock-cage if he doesn't start to behave himself.
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I personally believe that nagging you is still a form of using force. Force isn't just brute force, it's also manipulation. If you are unwilling to do something, you shouldn't do it and pushing you into doing it is just as wrong as using brute force. I am young and I am not married, but I personally find your husband abusive. I wouldn't do this to my partner, precisely because of the discomfort. I think it's unfair for you and you seem to be unhappy. In your situation, I would insist on rejection and see how far things can go. If you notice that he insists so much that you have no choice, it means that you are abused. Always accepting and tolerating things is bad because you don't find out who your partner truly is. And you also end up accepting a lot of stuff you don't really want and this leads to unhappiness. My advice is learn how to say "no" and do it everytime you feel this way. Do not accept or tolerate this anymore.