I said pretty much the same thing to him, although not worried about being attacked, we don’t live in a dangerous area like that. Maybe at night I would be scared to go out alone like that but not in the day. He sees it that we’ve done all that at home. I’ve even done the whole take my knickers off sitting in a fancy restaurant thing. Been to the cinema with nothing on under my coat a few times, he even made me take it off once during the film. I’ve worn a remote controlled vibrator to Christmas dinner at his parents which he turned on half way through the main course. These are all his fantasies and I’ve done them all for him but it’s like, whatever he comes up with he goes on and on until I agree but then he has to push it further the next time.
I think he's trying to push your boundaries. If you don't consent to it, he's commiting a felony by keeping on going with it. Be firm with him and if he carries on, go to the police.
You should never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. If you have any concerns about your own personal welfare when out in public due to your husband's requests, you shouldn't feel forced to follow through on them.
Should I wear revealing clothing with no underwear?
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I said pretty much the same thing to him, although not worried about being attacked, we don’t live in a dangerous area like that. Maybe at night I would be scared to go out alone like that but not in the day. He sees it that we’ve done all that at home. I’ve even done the whole take my knickers off sitting in a fancy restaurant thing. Been to the cinema with nothing on under my coat a few times, he even made me take it off once during the film. I’ve worn a remote controlled vibrator to Christmas dinner at his parents which he turned on half way through the main course. These are all his fantasies and I’ve done them all for him but it’s like, whatever he comes up with he goes on and on until I agree but then he has to push it further the next time.
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I think he's trying to push your boundaries. If you don't consent to it, he's commiting a felony by keeping on going with it. Be firm with him and if he carries on, go to the police.
You should never do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. If you have any concerns about your own personal welfare when out in public due to your husband's requests, you shouldn't feel forced to follow through on them.
Consent, consent, consent!