Should i want to shove my new relationship in my ex's face

My ex absolutely broke my heart. As soon as we broke up right before last Christmas she got with someone else and talking about how he was the love of her life blablabla not even considering my feelings. She dragged me around on her every whim when we were together and then if she felt like she went too far would beg for me back and blame her depression as if I don't have it too. I want to shove my new happy relationship in her face like a petty highschool drama just as she did to me. The thing is she's probably moved on but I don't care I spent months on the breakup and she spent nothing. I think she needs a bit of a reminder who the fuck she collected pieces of hearts from.

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Based on 17 votes (5 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella

    If you do that do that you'll only be showing her that you're still hung up on her.

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  • nikkiclaire

    Do you poke at snakes and sleeping bears?

    Move on.

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  • Don’t waste your time. If she had any feelings for you she’ll wonder once in a while - let her wonder forever.
    Don’t share your happiness or life with her, that’s your revenge.

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  • sydslytherin

    Okay it’s normal, but it’s not right. There’s a difference

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  • curious-bunny

    I wouldn't. That could easily get back to your new partner and I mean personally if I was on that situation and found out my partner did that I wouldn't know what to think and my thoughts would be more based around you only wanting to date to rub it in your ex's face wich wouldn't end well. Just forget about her man

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  • Boojum

    "petty highschool drama"

    You nailed it right there.

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  • paramore93

    What will this accomplish? Nothing, so no.

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  • Don’t be such a Sado, move on, enjoy your life with your new relationship. You can’t change the past so why bother trying to drag up what was obviously a shit time in your life. Some things just aren’t meant to be so forget about it. What would your new partner think if she knew you were so wrapped up in a past relationship?

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  • Nickvey

    you didnt learn any thing. you could be hours away from your next breakup and you want revenge? you got out alive when most dont. No alimony no child support? you should be in party mode.

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  • lordofopinions

    Revenge or resentments are like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies. Stop driving yourself nuts. Move on and enjoy your new relationship.

    All your ex is doing is renting space in your head at your expense.

    IF she comes crawling back just ignore her and/or tell her to go fuck herself. :)

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  • lordofopinions

    Not a good idea. She will a) think you're a prick b) think you still love her

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    • I already decided not to. It means she wins if I do that because she will control my life still just like she did when we were together so it's better to get over it really.

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  • Iszzy123

    Don't be petty

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  • Alduin

    If she ever breaks up just make sly digs.

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  • Mark92

    I understand the feeling "vengeance is sweet" but its better for you to move on...

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  • I think it's ok. As long as you don't risk returning to her. Then you'd get some extra mental comfort in exchange for pretty much nothing other than time, so it's good. That theory with "show that you're different" doesn't really sound impressive to me. In reality, you'd show that to nobody, because nobody cares.

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