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An old friend of mine has offered to take my virginity. She has an IUD and has papers to show that she has no STDs, and says that a condom is optional. Should I use one so that I don't expect the bare sensation every other time I have sex, or is it really not that different?
| Yes | 60 | |
| No | 45 |
I did treat her right, and we now have a semi-regular/normal thing going on :)
Ended up going with "no" out of necessity.
Let her know that you want her to break you in HER way. Good chemistry could be brewing.
DO you really have to use that expression. You sound a right common lowlife Mate! :o/
Trying to keep it NSA. We even both made plans for what we'd do if we somehow convinced ourselves otherwise. But thanks :)
It's nothing to do with your *abilities* It's common sense, and also shows that you care about the other person. When you have Sex with someone, you have Sex with everyone else they have been with (Unless their Virgins of course) and Vice Versa!
Use a condom, because you don't want to take any chances. How do you know she actually has an IUD? Additionally sometimes tests for STDS give a false negative. Do you really want to take a chance of getting a disease or knocking this girl up on your first time. You will need to get in the habit of using condoms anyway so be smart, and use one!
It sounds safe to not use one in this situation and it would tend to unnecessarily complicate your first time.
I don't know how different it feels to a bloke but when I know it's safe, and ONLY when I know it's safe, I'd prefer no condom from a sensation point of view.
Idiot. Not talking about being promiscuous. I mean if the girl is clean and on birth control.
Go back to slapping your meat, you're never going to get any pussy anyway.
"Clean" is no guarantee she doesn't have an STI or more than one and there's no guarantee you don't either, given most men have no symptoms. What's more, there's no 100% reliable contraception
My Sex Life is quite ok Thank You. Not that it's Fuck All to do with you anyway! As for your *If a Girl is really clean and on Birth Control >>>> Oh yeah, you can really tell if someone has an STD or not, just by looking at them .... NO, you CAN'T! Also, The Pill or anything other than a Condom, ISN'T going to stop you catching One! WAKE UP FFS! No wonder there's STD'S with people like YOU around. You need to Grow Up you Twonk!
So you would rather have Sex with every previous Sexual Partner that there might have been, than look after your Health? Your sick in the Head Mate! GROW UP! God knows WHAT STD's you've got :o/ .... And for the record, there is NO *only*. You can NEVER know someone is safe! Dirty Bitch!
That's why I said some STDs because some are treatable and others aren't. Condoms don't protect against all STDs either.
Ok. But say like HIV, Condoms can help prevent that. People live a lot longer with it now, back in the 80's and 90's it was pretty much a Death Sentence. However, although people now have longer and better lives with it now, it WILL kill you eventually. I know I would rather be safe than sorry. You can't turn a clock back Mate!
Okay, this is probably controversial, but if she has certification of a clean bill of sexual health AND (by virtue of the IUD) pregnancy isn't a possibility AND you trust her (most important) then personally I'd ditch the condom.
I actually loath condoms. They ruin the sensation, it's hard to get one that fits comfortably (must make that a question - IIN for a condom to feel like it's trying to strangle the base of your cock), and makes some "fun and games" (like gently moving your semi-flaccid post coital cock inside her until you get hard again) impossible. That being said, I only ever have sex with someone I trust to be STD free as well (except for one time, and I got myself checked 2 weeks afterward, and then again 6 months after that just to be sure).
If she is disease free and on birth control, then skip the condom. They absolutely ruin sex for me. But if you're a virgin you will probably cum really fast, so a condom may help you last a little longer.
All these worry warts trying to scare you to death probably watch too much TV. Not everyone has a rotten crotch. If you know her, trust her, and she is your friend....then go for it.
You should use One EVERY time. It isn't only the First time that things can be passed from One person to another. SAFE SEX ALWAYS MATE!!!!
DONT USE ONE. just make sure you have a plan B pill. drop the load deep in her