Should i try to work through this?

I broke up with my fiance about 10 months ago and started dating this girl around 9 months ago and at first she was amazing fun and everything was alright but now for some reason it's like shes a whole different person or at least not how I thought she was and shes always wanting to go out, never wants to stay in and relax. We never have time to chat or have serious conversations as she constantly wants to go out. I don't understand it but I went with it and maybe it's just a phase should i work through this is it normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • It sounds as if you were attracted to her because she was "amazing fun" but now you've discovered you want more than that in the relationship. It seems you were on the rebound if you got involved with her only a month after your breakup, so maybe her funloving attitude was a distraction for you.

    Talk to her about it: if she can't or won't change even a little bit you're obviously incompatible and it's time to move on.

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  • Maybe youre dating a cat

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    • And whats wrong with pussy?

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      • Funny how someone like you, who doesn't take this website seriously, has IIN gold.

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        • Why would anyone take a joke like this site seriously?
          Pardon my past life for her indecent judgement, btw. She thought highly of this site but that bish is dead.

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          • Only thing I take seriously on the internet is getting movies for free!

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        • Cause I get Gifts.. Awwww redwald wouldn't know about that. Sad face...

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          • You're right about me not getting gifts. I've made a point of making an anus of myself on this account.

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            • I get lots of insults like I'm a troll and my comments a worthless or I must be a child... But its why I come to IIN, I mean if I wanted to make friends I would go in facebook. But amongst all my trolling sometimes I accidentally get it right.

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  • You ditched the stable good girl for the fun crazy chick. Things are you're not fun or crazy. They both dodged a bullet with you.

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  • You cant figure a way to sit the girl down and talk to her? Tell her you dont feel like going out. Tell her to come over and watch netflix or something

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  • Sounds like you're incompatible. That's ok though, as long as both parties can see it those break ups tend to be the most amicable.

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