Should i text her and ask to talk?

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I broke up with her. Last time I saw her, she begged me to explain what waa wrong, I said I didn't want to talk but she kep on trying to convince me to open up, so I got up without saying a word and left her house. Only now I'm realising I'm at fault and that she never did anything wrong. But I don't want to text her after I left that way, it was too rude, I literally treated her like crap from the moment we broke up to the moment I last saw her.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    She deserves to know that you're a dick, that it's not her fault.

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    You've been acting like a dick. Everyone does from time to time.

    You've recognized that, which is a positive thing. Learn from this, and resolve to do better next time.

    Give her some time to cool down, then swallow your pride and apologize to her, acknowledging that you were in the wrong, it was all on you, and she doesn't deserve to be treated as you treated her.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Your pride is your worst enemy.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      She might not want to see me ever again. When I got up and turned away while she was talking to me she literally said " fuck off bastard ".

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Well, can you blame her? It's rude to just ignore someone, and walk off Luke that. She has a right to her feelings.

        Why did you leave her anyway?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          Forget it. It's a long story, you won't understand if I don't tell you all of it.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            That's rather presumptuous of you! Maybe she's better off without you? Regardless you won't know unless you talk to her. What's the worst thing could happen if you tried to talk to her?

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  • athem
    6 years ago

    It's good that you're acknowledging that you haven't acted in the best way. I think you should be fine to call her to explain.

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  • Applecandie
    6 years ago

    What the ACTUAL fuck??? Man, you are a little bit a lot confused there!! Call her and hope she is willing to have you back!

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    • rayb12
      6 years ago

      Call YOUR boyfriend and tell him you cheated on him 😂😂😂

      You judge OP but do even worse

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      • Applecandie
        6 years ago

        Well I am not regretting what I did, seems like he regrets what he did though! However,I have to say, touché 😘

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        • rayb12
          6 years ago

          KISS REJECTED. Stop kissing other men!!!!

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          • Applecandie
            6 years ago

            😂😂😂

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Call her, please. She will be relieved to hear from you.

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      Maybe, maybe not, but either way it ain't gonna kill him to try.

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      • rayb12
        6 years ago

        Could you imagine though, no closure at all?? I would def wanna get to hear from someone i love who did this to me. I left a relationship once and didn't wanna talk after, she said it was like such a big weight lifted off when I finally called. But you right everyone's different, always maybe

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          Oh, I certainly would want closure, but if it was a long time that had passed I dunno if I would wanna speak to the person or not. It all depends on a whole bunch of stuff.

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