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i dont find my boyfriends looks to be attractive. especially his face. i havnt let him know I feel this way, and im not sure what i should do about this
All you assholes assuming OP is just in it for money, whizz off. Ugos need love too.
What do you honestly think you would gain out of that? Or him for that matter? Just sounds like you wanna be a bitch for no reason, reminds of those girls in school that would be like "no offense but, " and then say something super offensive.
Are you attracted to him? If so, it doesn't matter. You obviously still find him attractive somehow.
If you're not attracted to him you should break up instead of wasting his time.
Well, what is unattractive about him and is there room for improvement?
What's the purpose of telling him? Criticizing him will only make him feel bad about himself. Is that what you want?
Don't tell him. Looks and money aside, If you are with him, you obviously love other things about him.
But telling him will just make you look like a jerk. There is always something you don't really like about your significant other, but a relationship has to have compromises and understanding to work right.
Don't tell him; it'll really hurt him, and it's one of those things you can't come back from. He'll always be thinking you think he's ugly from then on.
Please don't do that to him. If he loves you, why stab him like that? If you don't mind his looks, just love him, cherish him and be happy together. Love is a pretty precious thing to find. Don't blow it if you can avoid it. Good luck in your lives
Can I be honest?
If you don't find him attractive, you don't like him or appreciate him enough. When you really like someone or love someone, you don't see them as unattractive, it's literally impossible.
You shouldn't be with him if you're unable to find him attractive
Why are you with some dude you're not attracted to at all? Are you a golddigger?
If he never personally asked you for your honest opinion about his look, why would you suddenly feel the need to bring up the subject to tell him that you think he's unattractive? You will come off as being unnecessarily asshole-ish when you don't have to. It can entirely be avoided if you truly love being with him. Never destroy self-esteem of someone you're truly attached to, romantic partner and friends alike. It's not fucking rocket science, for fuck sake.
So what you do for sex? How do you get wet? Do you just not let him poke his ugly dick in you?
it will not hurt to tell him, more than likely he already knows he is not attractive.
Why offend him for no reason? Save this insult for a more appropriate moment, maybe for when you need to remind him he's lucky to have you.