The thing about older people who likes children in "that" way is that the children gets scarred for life since they're not supposed to be doing those kind of things. If your friend wants to keep up.... whatever he's doing I wouldn't care as long as he doesn't change peoples lives in a negative way. I also feel a bit sorry for those kind of individuals who are tormented by this need, since nothing about it is neither accepted nor good for the people who gets involved. I'd say as long as he is who he is in a harmless way, it's not too big of a problem.
Maybe he's been through something he hasn't told you about that triggered this... Talk to him about it.
I'm also going to say it: pedophiles are actually people too, no matter how lowly modern society thinks about them.
Should I still be friend with someone who confided me this?
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The thing about older people who likes children in "that" way is that the children gets scarred for life since they're not supposed to be doing those kind of things. If your friend wants to keep up.... whatever he's doing I wouldn't care as long as he doesn't change peoples lives in a negative way. I also feel a bit sorry for those kind of individuals who are tormented by this need, since nothing about it is neither accepted nor good for the people who gets involved. I'd say as long as he is who he is in a harmless way, it's not too big of a problem.
Maybe he's been through something he hasn't told you about that triggered this... Talk to him about it.
I'm also going to say it: pedophiles are actually people too, no matter how lowly modern society thinks about them.