It may be toxic but that doesn't mean it cannot turn around. It sounds like the two of you are feeding off of each others negative emotions...it is a vicious, painful cycle and I myself am only just starting to realize how much work it is going to take to inject a turn-a-round in my own marriage. I've recently been told I have severe depression and I have been completely floored by the possibility (and threat) that my husband will give up on me. Your wife probably holds as much pain as you do. Only she can change herself but at least you can have some perspective on why she treats you the way she does.
Should I Stay Married
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It may be toxic but that doesn't mean it cannot turn around. It sounds like the two of you are feeding off of each others negative emotions...it is a vicious, painful cycle and I myself am only just starting to realize how much work it is going to take to inject a turn-a-round in my own marriage. I've recently been told I have severe depression and I have been completely floored by the possibility (and threat) that my husband will give up on me. Your wife probably holds as much pain as you do. Only she can change herself but at least you can have some perspective on why she treats you the way she does.