Should i stay married
I told my wife that she is a liability to my career and happiness.
My wife has Multiple Sclerosis (this is not the issue). The issue is that she has such a complex about her illness, that she makes it impossible for me to succeed at ANYTHING.
I have quite jobs, given up friends, stopped doing things that I enjoy in my free time (like coaching kids soccer - not getting lap dances) to try to make her happy, but nothing works.
I am interested in politics, and just got appointed to a political job, but she does nothing but rag that everyone is in it for themselves and I am acting like a fool - although the mayor of our city answers my calls no matter what time, and I was an unknown less than a year ago.
I like working with kids, and I am financially able to volunteer some time, and all she does is try to make it impossible for me to enjoy. It got to the point that I EXPECTED a confrontation before every match. It is always the same ... I am selfish, the kids make fun of my behind my back, etc. I like to coach, so why not ? Does she want me to find something else to do ... go-go bar, gambling, drugs, what ?
We have a successful business, but she refuses to come to the office, bacause one of our employees smells like a relative that assulted her when she was young ... then, all she does is complain about how I run the business ... how would she know ? She is NEVER there.
We don't have tons, but enough ... I am good looking, a good lover, a good provider, and I make time for our children whenever it is possible ... Is it time to look for someone else ... don't get me wrong, NOT an affair ... just see ya later, bye ?
I want to save my marriage, but the more that I read this, the more it is obvious ... I am 40, and I promised when I had kids that I would never be involved with someone else until they were older ... well my youngest is 15. Not old enough, but close.
Truthfully, I could give a crap if there is someone for me. I can always pay for it.