My bf has visited my workplace a few times but just to pick me up after work. I don't mean to bring race into this but I think it might have a bit to do with the whole situation. "the leech" and I are Asian...maybe that is why he feels we belong together. The truck driver was white. My bf is black. Plus the leech's mom works there too!!!! He's fucking 31 and still lives in the basement. He says I'm a big embarrassment to him when I talk to guys but duhhh that's my intention.
He even mentioned my bf as a low life ghetto "n word" and oh man I was sooo ticked off.
Im scared to tell my bf about what recently happened because the leech might tell him I'm a ho (scenario # 1) or my bf will smash the windows of the leeches car (scenario # 2) and I lose my job. I told my bf that there is a guy that is bothering me but you know what he said? That I shouldnt have worked in a warehouse in the first place around guys but I like doing labour intensive work.
Look, the only reason why he is doing all this, is to get your attention.
stop giving the guy the attention he so deseperately want from you, by not giving a fuck.
Who cares if he calls you a hoe, that boy-adult is just gonna make himself look bitter and sad.
What isn't true can never hurt you. Just fickle words with no substance.
Ya you're right I don't give a fuck about him! but its just that he's highly respected at work and it's hard to go to a workplace when I feel that everyone is probably laughing at me behind my back. I ignored him many times..i never said hi or good morning to him anymore and right in front of him I say hi and good morning to everyone else.
He's got this one lady (an older co worker) on his side and apparently she wanted to take a swing at me last year just cuz I was being friendly to the truck driver. Fuck man, he knows more ppl than me and he's a better convincer. He always wants me to talk or Skype him on the weekends but for the past months I never did.
he's always trying to interrogate me asking what I did. I simply say I'm with my bf.
What a fucking leech douche bag. I just read over my Skypes with him and wow he actually thought we had something going on...
It's my fault I accepted rides from him and that I was often drunk around him...he felt he took care of me the whole time and that he's the one for me
Well thank you for your words! You are soo right I won't let him bring me down or drive me to quit
Youre still giving him thought. Just stop. And focus on your life.
If you really must cant you like switch departments? And if not, complain. Get evidence of him harassing you, like text msg or something.
Should I quit my job?
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You have a boyfriend? You kissed a truck driver? And for some weird reason "this" co worker doesn't get that you arent single?
How about bringing your bf into the scene and setting this guy straight.
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My bf has visited my workplace a few times but just to pick me up after work. I don't mean to bring race into this but I think it might have a bit to do with the whole situation. "the leech" and I are Asian...maybe that is why he feels we belong together. The truck driver was white. My bf is black. Plus the leech's mom works there too!!!! He's fucking 31 and still lives in the basement. He says I'm a big embarrassment to him when I talk to guys but duhhh that's my intention.
He even mentioned my bf as a low life ghetto "n word" and oh man I was sooo ticked off.
Im scared to tell my bf about what recently happened because the leech might tell him I'm a ho (scenario # 1) or my bf will smash the windows of the leeches car (scenario # 2) and I lose my job. I told my bf that there is a guy that is bothering me but you know what he said? That I shouldnt have worked in a warehouse in the first place around guys but I like doing labour intensive work.
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Look, the only reason why he is doing all this, is to get your attention.
stop giving the guy the attention he so deseperately want from you, by not giving a fuck.
Who cares if he calls you a hoe, that boy-adult is just gonna make himself look bitter and sad.
What isn't true can never hurt you. Just fickle words with no substance.
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Ya you're right I don't give a fuck about him! but its just that he's highly respected at work and it's hard to go to a workplace when I feel that everyone is probably laughing at me behind my back. I ignored him many times..i never said hi or good morning to him anymore and right in front of him I say hi and good morning to everyone else.
He's got this one lady (an older co worker) on his side and apparently she wanted to take a swing at me last year just cuz I was being friendly to the truck driver. Fuck man, he knows more ppl than me and he's a better convincer. He always wants me to talk or Skype him on the weekends but for the past months I never did.
he's always trying to interrogate me asking what I did. I simply say I'm with my bf.
What a fucking leech douche bag. I just read over my Skypes with him and wow he actually thought we had something going on...
It's my fault I accepted rides from him and that I was often drunk around him...he felt he took care of me the whole time and that he's the one for me
Well thank you for your words! You are soo right I won't let him bring me down or drive me to quit
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Youre still giving him thought. Just stop. And focus on your life.
If you really must cant you like switch departments? And if not, complain. Get evidence of him harassing you, like text msg or something.