Unless there's a legitimate reason you can't pay for gas / travel to see him once and a while on public transport, like you're poor (actually poor, not as in you can't afford an iphone 4 32GB so you've only got an iphone 4 8GB) then why not do a little compromising? It's just a nice thing to do.
Of course, if he actually insists on paying everything and insists on being the visitor not the visited, no worries.
I used to cycle a few miles to an old girlfriend's house once or twice a week, but because she'd sometimes cycle to see me it seemed more equal - we were both willing to put the effort in to see each other. I wasn't some kind of pizza delivery guy with a box full of loving, or a low class escort, and neither was she :P
So if he honestly doesn't mind, there's no issue. But if he's open to the idea of you paying some money, visiting him instead once and a while or making it up in another way (clean your mind out, I mean like paying for him at a restaurant or cinema etc.) it'd be a darn nice thing of you :)
should i pay for my boyfriends gas if he comes 2 see me everyday ?
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Totally agree with you.
Unless there's a legitimate reason you can't pay for gas / travel to see him once and a while on public transport, like you're poor (actually poor, not as in you can't afford an iphone 4 32GB so you've only got an iphone 4 8GB) then why not do a little compromising? It's just a nice thing to do.
Of course, if he actually insists on paying everything and insists on being the visitor not the visited, no worries.
I used to cycle a few miles to an old girlfriend's house once or twice a week, but because she'd sometimes cycle to see me it seemed more equal - we were both willing to put the effort in to see each other. I wasn't some kind of pizza delivery guy with a box full of loving, or a low class escort, and neither was she :P
So if he honestly doesn't mind, there's no issue. But if he's open to the idea of you paying some money, visiting him instead once and a while or making it up in another way (clean your mind out, I mean like paying for him at a restaurant or cinema etc.) it'd be a darn nice thing of you :)