Don't marry him, honey! Dump him, or at least gradually distance yourself from him. I highly recommend that you fly solo and concentrate on working on and for yourself for at least a year! If there's one thing this guy has proven it's that he's inconsistent. I think his initial stunt of moving out of ya'll first place with no communication except for a note is beyond a cowardly dickless move. Do you want to marry a man who might run out on you without a word when you're expecting his child or who might run out on you and the children?
You can forgive him, but don't forget! Forgiveness doesn't need to mean reconciliation. The only time forgiveness means reconciliation is when it's between one and God, because let's face it God has much broader shoulders than any of us. If you forgive this guy do it for your own peace of mind and serenity, not for any other reason or reasons. I myself am Roman Catholic, but I want to make it clear that it doesn't matter if you're Catholic, Protestant, any other religion, agnostic, atheist or a combination thereof YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER than what this guy has given you, or rather neglected to give you.
I'm sorry honey, but that fish is bad so throw it back. Please love and respect yourself!
Should i marry him or step away ?
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Don't marry him, honey! Dump him, or at least gradually distance yourself from him. I highly recommend that you fly solo and concentrate on working on and for yourself for at least a year! If there's one thing this guy has proven it's that he's inconsistent. I think his initial stunt of moving out of ya'll first place with no communication except for a note is beyond a cowardly dickless move. Do you want to marry a man who might run out on you without a word when you're expecting his child or who might run out on you and the children?
You can forgive him, but don't forget! Forgiveness doesn't need to mean reconciliation. The only time forgiveness means reconciliation is when it's between one and God, because let's face it God has much broader shoulders than any of us. If you forgive this guy do it for your own peace of mind and serenity, not for any other reason or reasons. I myself am Roman Catholic, but I want to make it clear that it doesn't matter if you're Catholic, Protestant, any other religion, agnostic, atheist or a combination thereof YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER than what this guy has given you, or rather neglected to give you.
I'm sorry honey, but that fish is bad so throw it back. Please love and respect yourself!