Should i manipulate my ex into sleeping with me?

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2 years ago is when things ended between us. I was the one to end our 6 month relationship. Because I couldnt ever see a future with her. I told her this before our relationship even started in very clear words. But she was either too much into me or wanted to give it a chance

She is a very emotional girl and scary in a way because she has a few false memories of me and our relationship that make me go O_O. Not sure if her medication has to do with that. But MY GOD is she smokin' hot. She always has been.

She got married and got divorced cause hubby cheated 4 times in one year. Even though we texted each other a few times in the past 2 years. She only revealed the marriage and divorce today.

This girl idolizes me and my morals! Basically tells me that I was amazing for being upset at her answering the pizza delivery guy in super short shorts or laying in a bikini by the pool (the same place she had a fling with a dude). That the protecting/possessive traits in me made me amazing. Fucking LOL. Here I thought me being upset those days was a sign of immaturity, closed-mindedness and insecurity.

I am 100% confident I can have her put out with just a little effort on my part. The question is, should I?

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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    8 years ago | pl

    No

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  • dom180
    8 years ago | pl

    Manipulating people in that way is unacceptable and you need to stop.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago | pl

    Alright IIN. You win again. My conscience thanks you for talking some sense into me, while allowing him to regain full control of me in the meantime.

    Until next time...

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    • Couman
      8 years ago | pl

      Not only your conscience, I think I see your common sense back there giving us a thumbs up too. "Very emotional". "scary in a way", "false memories"?

      Smokin' hot she may be, but it's not worth it.

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  • Loneliness
    8 years ago | pl

    Are you willing to deal with all the drama and headache just because you can't keep it in your pants? No don't do it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      What if there was only drama last time because I was confused if I really did want to keep her around or not? :3 What if this time I am 100% sure what I want?

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      • Loneliness
        8 years ago | pl

        What about what she wants? You know she's a person with feelings. She might start thinking that you want her back as a girlfriend or something like that.

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  • KeepsakeDoll
    8 years ago | pl

    With the information you've given us there's a possibility she's going to cling to you once the deed is done.

    Prepare yourself for the drama that will ensue.

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  • Fall_leaves
    8 years ago | pl

    What makes you so sure she would want to sleep with you

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Ah. Trust you to come up with a good point like that, leafy

      I'm certain she doesnt as of this moment. But I can manipulate her into doing so. I say this from experience in knowing what wins her over and gets to her, specific values and sentiments that would floor her when I was with her. She might have reinforced walls and a "Never again" attitude towards me. But once you're in a relationship with a person you learn the chinks in their guarded walls. And even if they put up new walls, you can still get through using that old chink as a benchmark. I might sound overly confident and I cocky, which might have offended you on her behalf to say "what makes you so sure [...]". But it comes down to an algorithm and emotional manipulation.

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      • Fall_leaves
        8 years ago | pl

        Why would you want to sleep with anyone if you have to manipulate them into doing so? I wouldn't want to be with anyone unless they actually reciprocated those same feelings, no manipulation.

        Just keep it simple like, "hey, I would like to sleep with you again" lay out your intentions no bells and whistles. If you don't want a relationship and only want sex, then be straight about it, don't sugar coat it that's no different than lying. Get a yes or no and if it's no then accept it, you broke up with her, if she doesn't want to go down that road again then you can't blame her.

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  • poon__jabber
    8 years ago | pl

    Just get a $20 street BJ.. that's what I do.

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  • blueyedleo
    8 years ago | pl

    Go ahead if you want to make love to her. Not for sake of screwing!

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Dude, you ever hear of Loraina Bobbit? If you value your little dickie, don't go making some girl crazy. duh.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago | pl

    Only if you want her to go bat shit crazy on you, cause she's your ex for a reason, child!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      What if I am certain she wont go batshit crazy? Because she didnt during our ship. She is rather quite sweet and understanding.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago | pl

        All the more reason not to use her for sex and then just throw her away. Good God man, she's just gotten divorced! Try to put yourself in her shoes, empathize!

        Or are your so called "morals" subjective and just a front for jealousy and insecurity?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago | pl

          Alright alright! You had be convinced with the first paragraph. No need to go all Freudian on me with the second.

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  • RapidlyRotatingPanda
    8 years ago | pl

    Every hole is goal.

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  • davesumba
    8 years ago | pl

    Yes, she deserves it. Literally fuck crazy ass bitches.

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