Quote: "We've been friends for over a year. We talk pretty much everyday all day (text,fb,etc) .We know all of each others secrets. We'll visit each other whenever one of us is working and she's met all my friends."
It's not how LONG she knows someone, it's how intimately she knows them.
It's also not just that they seem very close to each other, their friendship(shall we call it that?) is also very intense.
as said, everybody should have their own opinion, so yeah, i understand yours. I just disagree with it.
I am not suggesting he tries to ruin the relationship, i am suggesting he tries to take "his place". There's a saying regarding the boardgame go: "If something can be taken from you, it never was yours!" - as far as partners are concerned, i fully agree with that!
If he is a better partner to her with whom she feels more comfortable, she should end her relation with the previous guy and instead become his girlfriend. If she wants to stay with her guy, he should move on.
He sees more in her than just a friend, and over time, just being friends will not work out.
Should i let her go?
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Quote: "We've been friends for over a year. We talk pretty much everyday all day (text,fb,etc) .We know all of each others secrets. We'll visit each other whenever one of us is working and she's met all my friends."
It's not how LONG she knows someone, it's how intimately she knows them.
It's also not just that they seem very close to each other, their friendship(shall we call it that?) is also very intense.
as said, everybody should have their own opinion, so yeah, i understand yours. I just disagree with it.
I am not suggesting he tries to ruin the relationship, i am suggesting he tries to take "his place". There's a saying regarding the boardgame go: "If something can be taken from you, it never was yours!" - as far as partners are concerned, i fully agree with that!
If he is a better partner to her with whom she feels more comfortable, she should end her relation with the previous guy and instead become his girlfriend. If she wants to stay with her guy, he should move on.
He sees more in her than just a friend, and over time, just being friends will not work out.