Should i keep my virginity until marriage?

Is it normal to stay a virgin until marriage?

Age: 21
Gender: Male
Location: America

Some background information:
I've had opportunities in the past to have sex, but I turned them down because I wanted to wait till marriage, and give my virginity to my wife. It feels like virginity isn't valued anymore and that I should give into the world, because I doubt my wife will be a virgin by all the people I meet. Honestly a unicorn seems easier to find.

*insert twilight sparkle here*

I hope I'm not whining. I'm wishing to hear peoples thoughts on this subject:
To wait or not to wait. That is the question.

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Based on 118 votes (77 yes)
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Comments ( 21 )
  • shiel22

    Don't listen to anyone besides yourself on this one. Having your virginity is the most beautiful thing you could have at your age and maybe it's rare but it's not impossible to find a woman who is also pure. It means you two will fall in love mentally first and your marriage will be sure to last because you two would be like best friends. Figuring out the realm of sex together during marriage will bring you two even closer.

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  • EccentricWeird

    I still haven't found Princess Twilight :( and you're saying finding a nice lady is harder than that?!?! O cruel fates!

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    • Legion

      I'd help, but my interdimentional portal is still missing a piece.

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  • anti-hero

    It's your choice dude. Do what's right for you.

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  • wistfulmaiden

    Please don't ask random strangers on the internet serious questions, you'll only get troll advice or made fun of.
    You do what you think is the right thing.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    if thats yalls thang then yall might find success in a religious settin

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  • reminiscent

    We are not married but my bf and I gave it up to each other...we have been together for 8 years now ♡. I find it sexy when a guy is ether a virgin or at least has very little partners. Like its very attractive.

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  • I think waiting until marriage is incredibly stupid because you should make sure you are sexually compatible before signing the rest of your life away.

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  • TheWeasel

    That just means you will be sexually inexperienced when you get with your future wife who I guarantee will be infinitely more sexually experienced. probably with multiple past partners. I think this could strain a relationship. It is rare that two honest virgins find each other and get married. Usually one person is a virgin and the other is not. Hopefully that does not bother you. A lot of seemingly unsuspecting innocent women have already had threesomes and stuff like that by your age.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Only if you'd rather not please your new wife by being a skilled and capable lover. Sex isn't something some people are born with a talent for. It is something one must practice and experience to achieve proficiency at. So if you want to be a good lover and please your wife sexually, get on out there and practice, practice, practice.

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  • Beautyblonde17

    I think you should do what you believe in. I personally am a 19 year old female who is waiting until marriage and I think it's incredibly strong and sexy for a guy to want to wait until marriage, especially considering most guys I've gone out with try to get in my pants on the first date. And sure most people our age aren't virgins anymore, but there are girls out there with your same mindset who would be perfectly happy with an inexperienced guy and would love to take that next step with you. All of my closest friends are virgins too so I think it helps to surround yourself with people who have the same values.

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  • zyxwxxx

    Absolutely yes. Keep your virginity till marriage. THat's the best thing to do!

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  • PentacleRose69

    I personally don't believe people need to wait until marriage to have sex but if you'd rather keep it then that is your choice. I say if you're ready to give it up than you should.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    It's different for each person. If you want to wait until you're older before you have sex, then that's a good idea. BUT, wait until marriage... umm... this isn't 1914... bad idea. Don't wait until you're married to start developing your likes/ dislikes, discovering your most inner thoughts of sexuality, and - not to mention - your sexual skills. Some ppl think "oh, it's so special to develop skills together as a couple"... but you want to at least had practice before the big game.

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  • borntobeme

    TheGypsysailor nailed it! Your honey moon will be a disaster if you do not know what you are doing. Get out and fuck, fuck, fuck!

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  • nop1234

    Depends on you. I, myself, am focusing my efforts into losing it as soon as possible right now.

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  • Riddler

    If you want to yes. Your over 20 so it probably wont have a change of creating developmental disorders. If you have a good enough job it doesn't matter if you have a kid. However you should think about the risks you are taking when you have sex, always use protection and always be prepared for worst case scenario.

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  • Caps90

    wow if you have to ask this question on here then wait, you are obviously not ready to have sex.

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  • bigbill4368

    No don't wait

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  • sega31098

    Get an arranged marriage.

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  • handsignals

    OP is a fag.

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