Honestly, virginity doesn't mean much when it comes to a guy enough to hold on to it. Men won't respect you for it and women won't think you're attractive for it either. You're 18, which isn't all that bad but time is ticking and the sooner you have sex the sooner you'll become comfortable with the experience and become better at it.
You will feel like the odd one out, that's normal, dude. The subject is paired with the nervousness of your first time and we've all been there so don't feel alone in that. I'm not saying to become a sex-pest but don't hold on to your virginity intentionally. Good luck, brother, we all have been here and no doubt many of your peers are going through the exact same thing as you right this second.
Should I just have sex to get it over with?
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Honestly, virginity doesn't mean much when it comes to a guy enough to hold on to it. Men won't respect you for it and women won't think you're attractive for it either. You're 18, which isn't all that bad but time is ticking and the sooner you have sex the sooner you'll become comfortable with the experience and become better at it.
You will feel like the odd one out, that's normal, dude. The subject is paired with the nervousness of your first time and we've all been there so don't feel alone in that. I'm not saying to become a sex-pest but don't hold on to your virginity intentionally. Good luck, brother, we all have been here and no doubt many of your peers are going through the exact same thing as you right this second.